There are a few reasons for that! For one thing, it can often feel like the most vulnerable. Girl on top is a tough sex position for any woman who feels nervous, anxious, clueless, or self-conscious during sex. The advice is actually helpful, and it just might make this one of your new favorites! Why not try out some of the tips? Skip this Ad Next Don't Grind Your Hips When you're on top, you might have the instinct to grind your hips, as that seems the most natural.
But maybe don't, because according to the Reddit thread, a lot of guys don't like it. User leftajar said, "In my experience, a lot of chicks will do a 'grind their hips' motion.
This not only doesn't feel that great, it's actively painful. It's like my dick is getting bent over and over. The motion that feels good to men is generally an "in-and-out" motion. One way to do this is to basically twerk -- lean really far forward on your guy, and move only your hips up and down. It's a really popular one, but according to the thread, a lot of guys aren't into that either.
It's also called hula-hooping, and a lot of guys say it's actually painful for them. User infernoMale said, "Grind or shorter bounces don't wanna slip out. Well, all dudes are different! So, keep that in mind as you read through this. Obviously, they want to see you getting turned on and really into it.
User singeblanc said, "Men are pretty visual, so honestly if you just look like you're loving it, that you're moving as if you just can't get enough of the D, then that's hot. The specific movement is less important than going wild and showing him how much you are enjoying yourself. One common response among the thread was the suggestion for girls to move back and forth.
Like you're trying to stay on a horse. A user who has since deleted his username said, "I'm usually pretty pleased with anything when she's on top.
But, a few of my favorite things You feel like running your hands up your sides, or feeling your own parts I'm also a particular fan of the sensation of breasts pressed against me or moving on my skin. It's sexy, it's soft, it's intimate. User Havib3 said, "Up and down, varied is nice, different angles and stuff, but yeah mostly up and down. They want you to look right at them and show that you're in charge.
Look him in the eyes, put your arms together so you squeeze them real good. Might as well push them in his face occasionally if he's into it. Go slow on him move a little forward and up , build it up, tease him. He loves you, he loves your body, don't be afraid to show yourself. Who cares if you practice on two pillows in front of a mirror, whatever is needed to make you more confident.
His penis is sensitive and leaning in one direction too much can be super painful. User POGtastic said, "Do whatever gets you off, but please don't lean back too far. Our boners don't bend in that direction. A user who has since deleted his username said, "Up and down from top to bottom. Circular movements are okay but not going to make me cum.
Your nipples rubbing on my chest are a big turn on. A lot of the guys said that they didn't really care, because for them, the position is for the girl's pleasure. User Kasperblack said, "From my experience, I've always looked at op-top, as a ' for her' position.
And I just let them do their own thing. I would just feel it out, and see what feels best.