Keep trying to have Anal sex with my sweet innocent wife Quote: Originally Posted by marriedguy View Post I did a search on anal sex in this forum, and seems like there's alot of people on here who enjoy it alot with their wives First off, my wife isnt the one to initiate sex..
I would say I initiate 98 percent of the time First time that I touched her anal area she enjoyed it I may have pushed it too much too soon I pushed it too much at first in our marriage I wait for weeks but nothing Maybe not even do it orally anymore? Maybe she'll miss it one day? Coming from a female It is ALL about the positioning and comfort.
I highly advise against doggy style!! Side-by-side or spooning as RH suggested is hands down, the best position. Let her move back and forth so that she is in charge of the depth. Truth be told, I've never experienced pain using this position. As the others have stated, and I'm you sure you know, anal sex can be verrrrryyy painful and kind of scary when not done right.
Unfortunately, in my experience there is a fine line between right and wrong for this. Unfortunately, if your wife had a bad experience, she may not be open to it for a while. The number one thing that has to be present in order for it to be a good experience is relaxation on her part. This may be a little too personal, but do you use fingers down there? If not, maybe you should try.
If you do, try gauging her reactions to this. Slowly, maybe try using more fingers to And if all else fails, if you guys partake in drinking every now and again I'm not saying to take advantage of her, buuuuuttt I do know that it will take the edge off! He didn't like it as much as he thought he would so he kinda got over it and doesn't ask for it anymore. Before his A, I'd give it to him if he wanted it, but it wasn't my favorite thing ever!