People who brag about something are most likely insecure about it. This is no different when it comes to having sex. Sexual performance is a very sensitive topic with men, so bragging about it may be a way to cover up any insecurities. If a man feels he is good in bed, then there should be no reason to brag about it. If you find yourself bragging about your sexual performance to your friends, or worse yet, to your girlfriends, then you may feel insecure in bed.
Good hygiene is always a good thing, but it is possible to take it too far. Women have a more sensitive sense of smell than men do. This means that an unpleasant odor will have much impact on a woman than it would on a man.
For this reason, it is vital that you wear clean clothes and shower regularly, especially before having intimate sex. However, being too sensitive to hygiene can be a major turnoff for the woman and ruin the entire experience. Poor posture is often associated with laziness. If you are lazy in general, then you are most likely not very good in bed either.
Men with good posture make an effort to stand up straight with shoulders back and tummy in. Men who make an effort to stand up straight also make an effort to improve many aspects of their lives. How they perform in bed is usually one of them, so men with good posture are also better in bed.
Men who talk with their hands in large sweeping motions are much more likely to be creative and imaginative. They prefer to make their lovemaking session a production which will be anything but boring. If you are creative like this, then you will be very popular in bed with just about any woman. Once committed, you and your lover who have wonderful sex for decades to come. There are few places that a good imagination and creativity can benefit men more than while in bed.
Boredom is one of the main reasons why the sexual part of a relationship can often fade, or even disappear altogether. Trying new creative activities and positions will help to keep lovemaking exciting all the time. There are married couples who have been together for 60 years and still make love on a regular basis. A successful lovemaking session depends heavily on an even amount of give-and-take.
Men almost always have an easier time achieving orgasm than women while in bed. Women are emotional creatures and need more time to achieve orgasm. Although many women may not feel comfortable talking about it, having an orgasm is vital to having an enjoyable lovemaking session.
If it matters to you that she achieves orgasm, you will definitely be better in bed. If there is one thing you need to avoid while in bed, that is making it into a dull routine where you just go through the motions. One sure way to make sure this doesn't happen is to add variety to your lovemaking session. Simply making love in the same bed every time takes away from that important aspect of lovemaking.
Try going on a camping trip or hike, bring a sleeping bag and find a nice private spot. This will be one lovemaking session she will never forget. There is no question that an erect penis will arouse a woman more during lovemaking.
Actually, simply the fact you are erect shows that you are aroused. This alone could make or break the lovemaking session. Nothing can ruin a time in bed for a woman more than when she thinks you are not aroused by her.
It is still true, however, that an erect penis will give her more sensation and more chance of achieving orgasm. As we all know, foreplay is vital to a successful lovemaking session. Without it, lovemaking wouldn't be much fun at all.
While it is believed that women need more and longer foreplay than men, foreplay is very important to men as well. If you don't offer any foreplay, it will be almost impossible for the woman to achieve orgasm and will not enjoy being in bed with you.
If you offer a long period of foreplay, she will be looking forward to the next lovemaking session for sure. There is not much that can be more arousing for a woman than spontaneous sex. Scheduled sex simply doesn't cut it. Even if you have both have busy lives, there is still plenty of opportunity for spontaneous sex. Spontaneity will make the lovemaking more memorable as well as enjoyable. If you have sex at the same time and on the same days, it will become routine and possibly boring.
Eventually, you may simply not have sex at all. Right now it appears you are rather unexciting in bed. Of course it doesn't have to stay that way. Simply making a few changes can make all the difference in the world. Adding some creativity to your routine will help a great deal. Try having sex at spontaneous times and in different locations, such as outdoors. You can also try extending your foreplay and help your lover work up to orgasm. With some effort, she will be asking you to have sex once again.
There are definitely some good points to how you make love, but there are still some room for improvement. If your lovemaking has become routine, try changing it by having sex in a new location such as outdoors.
You can also try spontaneous sex by totally surprising her. This will definitely make the session memorable for her. Finally, trying different positions will make it less routine and much more exciting for both of you. It appears you are doing just fine in bed. If you want to make things even more exciting, think about how spontaneous and creative you are in bed and see if there is room for improvement.
If you are already imaginative and spontaneous, maybe you can improve your time in bed by spending more time pleasing her. Spend plenty of time on foreplay and make more effort to help her to achieve orgasm. It is unlikely that you will ever receive complaints about your performance in bed. You are most likely creative and spontaneous with your positions and the locations that you have sex.
You make an effort to help you love her achieve orgasm and offer lots of foreplay. Women appreciate men that do as much giving as they do taking. Keep up the good work, your lover will thank you for it. Wow, your lover is lucky to have you around, especially in bed. You make her feel special and loved, and she enjoys every minute of it.
One can only imagine the places that you have made love and the positions that you use. You are most likely spontaneous and romantic, while making lovemaking a long enjoyable event. Don't change a thing, because you are doing things just the right way, and your lover is looking forward to being in bed with you again soon. Men, are you good in bed? Do you think you're good in bed? Is your lover always asking to have sex with you? Does she always have orgasms when you two make love?
Are you unsure about how good of a lover in bed you are? Answer the following questions in our quiz and find out how good you are in bed. You may be surprised that posture and even how you talk with your hands can make a difference. Other questions are more straightforward. Be as honest as possible with your answers to achieve the most accurate results.
The higher your score the better. Your results will appear here. How often do you brag about how good you are in bed?