In order for couples to keep love and romance exciting in their relationships they must first establish an environment of love, trust, and respect. If each mate consistently expresses and displays these three things to each other a safe, secure, supportive atmosphere is created. The ultimate goal of building intimacy is to create a vulnerable relationship space that is non-judgmental and allows for openness and honesty.
Each person should be able to share their innermost desires and fantasies without apprehension, fear, guilt, or shame. All of these elements must be present in order to take risks that allow you to take your intimate experiences to the next level. Listed below are 4 ways that couples can take their sexual experiences to new heights.
Fully commit to the role, immerse yourself and become one with the character. Purchase an outfit, walk the walk, talk the talk, and behave exactly as the role dictates you should. Be everything that your mate desires and fantasizes about.
If you really want to get creative and do something different, plan an evening out as two single people that just happen to meet each other. Pick a club or bar and designate a time to arrive. Fellas, put on your sexiest outfit and her favorite cologne. Ladies, put on your sexiest outfit and stilettos. Men plan to drive your car. Arrive first so that you can find the perfect spot to watch your woman walk in and casually stroll past you. Women call an Uber to drive you to the spot.
Allow your entrance to captivate him and command all of his attention as you walk past him to the bar. Tell your mate you want to try something new. Or better yet, purchase a book that clearly illustrates several sexual positions that you can try. Go through it together and select positions to try. Remember to shake up your routine.
You are not confined to 9: You can and should be spontaneous with your locations and times to add variety to your erotic interludes. Build it and They Will Come Dare to dream beyond your one super-secret adult toy. Draw and create your own 50 Shades of Grey pleasure dome. Allow your imagination to guide you. Simply agree on a few toys, massage lotions, outfits, naughty accessories, and romantic music to put in your play room.
Paint the room a deep rich sensual color, add candles and soft textured fabrics that stimulate the senses. As you mature sexually and grow more comfortable with your mate add more things that you feel will enhance your intimate experiences.
Unleashing your inner sex kitten or Don Juan signifies to your mate that you both are entering a sexual safety zone filled with a confidence and assertiveness that leads to unfiltered, uninhibited, unbridled passion. Walk up behind them in the kitchen and touch them, kiss them, or say something that only your alter ego would say. And then tell them to meet you in the pleasure dome. Create sexual experiences that would rival any romance novel.
A strong intimate connection is required to explore intimacy and brave unchartered territory. Make it a practice to connect mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically daily. Kiss your mate deeply, embrace them tightly, and tell them through your words and actions that they are the most important person in your life daily. Build trust that will tear down walls of fear and apprehension.
Figure out ways to dive deeper into intimacy with your mate. BMWK — family does your intimate space allow vulnerability? About the author LaDawn Elliott wrote 43 articles on this blog. She guarantees a breakdown for breakthrough.