You also know more than three types of sexual positions. Here are 13 sex tips for gay guys who think they know everything about sex! But once you're warmed up, periodically squeeze your hole as he's penetrating you. The pressure not only feels really good for him, but for you too. Switch condoms between partners So hopefully you're doing this already, but if you're topping a number of guys first of all, good for you , you should be switching condoms between partners, no matter how squeaky clean their anuses are.
You don't want to transfer any bacteria or anything else between partners They can be holding on the bedpost for dear life. They can be touching your partner's chest, jerking them off, holding their hand. Your hands should never be laying by your side doing nothing.
Kegel squeeze while inside of him So if you're a pro, you already know what Kegel exercises are and how they strengthen your PC muscle. If you're topping, do a Kegel squeeze inside of him. It moves your penis up and down, hitting different places, which feels really good for the man bottoming.
Use vibrating cock rings There's really nothing much more to add than this. It feels good for the top, helping him to achieve a more full-body orgasm, and it feels really good for the bottom, because you're vibrating his booty.
It's just a win-win, and I'm surprised why more guys aren't using them all the damn time. Spread those cheeks wide before devouring his hole WIDE.
None of this baby spread nonsense. You want to get up IN there. Pull his cheeks apart as far as they go before feasting on that cake.
Change up locations Are you a pro or are you a pro? Pros don't have sex in the bedroom every single time. They take their lovemaking sessions to the living room, laundry room, outdoors, and even sex clubs. Breathe Such a simple thing to do, and it's advice that every sex expert gives, yet I find myself and so many others getting so excited that they forget to breathe during sex.
Breath control helps you manage your orgasms and can delay them. Give subtle feedback If you're a pro, you should known to give direct, explicit feedback too.
Do more of that! Moan loudly if he does something you like while blowing you. Arch your hips so he hits the spot you want him to hit. Guide his hands where you want them to go. These are ways to communicate what you want sexually without being blunt. Mimic his style In general, people kiss the way they like being kissed. If they use a lot of tongue, they want tongue in return. If they're deepthroating your dick, that's probably how they like receiving oral.
Sometimes this isn't the case, as subs prefer doms, not other subs, but if you're not engaging in a play that is supposed to have a power discrepancy, this is a good general rule to live by. Double your foreplay time and tease Maybe you're already good about this, but I'm just going to go off on a limb and assume you're not. I, too, have a tendency of wanting to get down to business ASAP, but when I have more foreplay, more kissing, and more teasing prior to getting down to business, the sex is so much better.
Find the perfect dirty-talk balance This is really difficult and requires you to read your partner. Some guys love dirty talk, the dirtier the better. Some guys hate it. Some guys, like myself, find it performative unless done with more intention than "this is sexy because it's dirty. Get into it and and mean it. It also sets the mood. If you're going for rough, better get some music that screams "pump me daddy. If you're going for naughty, find some music you consider naughty.
You get the gist!