February 3, at February 4, at Fat sex grosses me out. I can't stand it when I feel even 5 pounds over weight. For all of you that accuse us that are frank about fatties, this is because you are fat! I don't feel sorry for you either. I too have stress and little time. I too struggle with wanting to fit into pants, gaining weight, and being tempted to over eat but you know what? I still exercise and don't throw in the towel if I blow it sometimes with diet and exercise.
Americans make too many excuses and are therefor an obese country. Get up off your butts, move, and eat less. You don't need a lot of time to do this. Try turning the TV off. Oh and please, don't try to squeeze into the seat next to me on the airplane. Just because I'm not huge doesn't mean you can have my seat too. We aren't taking about genuine medical patients who have genuine health problems and medication side effects.
I know for many of you land whales the truth is hard to hear but you really brought this upon yourselves. I'm sick of my tax dollars paying for this outrageous health care system's sky rocketing costs because you fat hogs won't stop shoving food in your mouths. It's no different than smokers draining our healthcare system who conditions like COPD and lung cancer.
So face reality and lose some weight for your own sake. Y'all must lead rich fantasy lives. Why is it the obese have starring rent-free roles in your heads? Targeting the overweight and the obese allows them to act out your personal angers and frustrations. It's also a way for you to feel superior and special, by denigrating another class of people. If we replaced the words 'obese' and 'overweight' with 'African-American' or 'Jew,' we would see how truly offensive your actions and terms become.
Everyone would turn on you like a pack of rabid wolverines. What you're all demonstrating to everyone is your own arrogance and lack of compassion for humanity. February 6, at This wasn't an article about why people are or are not fat. It wasn't about who is to blame or what society should do about it. It's just about how people who are overweight or obese can still enjoy an active sex life. The fact that obesity is mostly a consequence of behavior is irrelevant to the question of how can people who are overweight still enjoy sex.
There were some good ideas here. No one is forcing you to try them out. And if the thought of "fat sex" is disgusting to you I wonder why you would even think to read this article.
If people who are fat want to have more sex then good for them. And don't tell me that fat people having sex is an additional cost to the tax payer. February 15, at I have 0 sympathy for obesity. Told my gf the same thing and you people need to start growing a spine and speaking your mind.
Instead of waiting til your lbs overweight and the thought of having sex with eachother makes you sick.. This is a classic case of "you let yourself go because you thought you could". Usually it happens after marrige.. But I say it all the time. I will not be with someone who is ok destroying themselves and I will not stand by as they do it..
The same goes for men, this isn't just about women. I'll bet you spend more time manscaping and admiring yourself in the mirror than you do supporting, loving or just talking to your girl-friend. You'll get old, you'll sag Dude takes it a little far but he is right. To do otherwise is to do a dis-service to your mate.
Do they threaten you? Otherwise, why would you care enough to be so judgemental? I suggest you see a therapist. The idea that you somehow owe it to someone else to do so isn't one of them. Just because you didn't like it when your former GF gained weight doesn't mean it's something she did to you.
Her weight gain happened to her, not you. My husband and I never had any kids together so he never had to have pregnant sex with me. But I tell ya what we've been having pregnant sex for a long time now! He has looked eight months pregnant for years and for some reason here lately I can't stand it. I want a warm body rubbing against mine while having sex. With the positions we're limited with I'm just not happy!
I'm not asking for a perfect body, I can handle chubby. He was nothing but muscle when we met and I've always been the one worried I would end up fat. I am so tired of trying to talk him into doing a gym membership with me and all he has to say is "why?
Ugh so I dropped 20 pounds down to and he still isn't trying. I can't wait for the kids from our previous relationships to leave home because this is not an issue I want to be arguing about with them here, cause it's gonna be a drawn out battle i do believe. I can see him leaving me for being selfish, but he's being selfish by risking his heart health bad family history for the food he wants.
Long story short, I got fat and the wife still looked great noteing that I was in incredible shape when her and I met. Due soley to letting myself go, it wasn't right to her to have strangers look at us especially at places where the shirt must come off pools, beaches, etc. It wasn't right to expect her to touch and feel the dough boy body that I developed. It wasn't right that the summer heat drained me so much that I prefered to stay in air conditioning.
So I took my medicine so to speak, lost the weight and continued to improve to near bodybuilder type proportions.
I was a schlub slob hubby and I was given one chance. I changed but had I not changed then my wife should have left. You need to do the same. It is not shallow to have been physcially attracted to your hubby when he was "the man" and to be unattracted and unhappy with what he has allowed himself to become while you still take care of yourself. People don't get fat overnight when everything is going well in their lives. Obesity is often a symptom of emotional starvation.
Stress over the fact the everyone in my husbands family has had some sort of heart issue. I spent our first years listening to him complain about how they wouldn't take care of themselves and actually he still does. It's like he doesn't see himself in the mirror.
His body was not built to carry this weight. Imagine the waddling pregnant woman. It's not being superficial, its the stress of worrying about his health daily at such a young age that is the biggest turn off. This is not how I imagined us as a couple with grown kids. Like I said before he has looked pregnant for years and it's just now catching up with me. The visual part is the daily reminder of what can happen if he doesn't take control of his health.
So that is the part that is turning me off. His trying to blame me for not feeding him right or keeping up with him going to the doctor didn't help in the romance department either. But I feel very strongly about him being in charge of his health. Everyone has to take responsibility for their own actions or it's going to be a constant battle.
Fat is pretty disgusting to look at and for sure I wouldn't be interested in fooling around with a fat person either. To put it mildly. Instead of forcing people to accept you for the worthless piece of lard you are, go on a diet, go to the gym, even get the gastric f'ing by pass for god's sake.
I say, let them be fat, let them be unable to enjoy one of life's freebies sex , let them get sick and die, let them have their non-medical excuses and "stories", let them be! It IS their choice! Not happy about my tax dollars being allocated to take care of them or having to deal with a "manatee" sitting next to me on an airplane BUT that's the price of living in a "society" of people.
And this article basically says it is OK to be fat. I'm a woman, in my 70's and I'm fat as a hog.