Ric June 3, at Andrew Dowling June 3, at Jasmine August 24, at 2: When I was 51, I married my year-old Knight in Shining Armor and immediately had a midlife pregnancy scare. We lived incredibly happily ever after for 22 years until he died 2 years ago. They explain by saying they are younger than their age. What does that even mean?!? Before investing another dime, I need to know how and if Stitch will address the mismatch? Do you have a hidden stash of active year old men who are seeking year-old companions?
Or is it something information and eduction can address? Andrew Dowling August 24, at 2: Particularly for those seeking companionship rather than romance … I have many friends in the Stitch community who are 20 years my senior, while there is no way I could have said the same when I was Older men who want to find a young woman have plenty of other sites they can go to who cater to that.
The ones who are attracted to Stitch join us because they are looking for real people, shared interests and conversation just as much as any physical attraction. Jasmine August 25, at 6: Shirley September 21, at 9: I am attractive, 65, with health problems. All the men have health problems. My husband had prostate cancer. Because he is 73 ,impotent, every lady in FL. And, I see a lot of that on the dating sites I am on.
Many older women looking for younger men — but reality is that most men are not looking for older women. Most men still want a younger woman — maybe 5 years younger, and someone that is at least somewhat physically attractive. And, while companionship is great, you can join a local social club for companionship. But then, I had many women ask me why I was not interested in marriage? They all said they would not date someone who is not open to marriage because their ultimate end goal was marriage and commitment.
Carmen December 23, at 1: She is now in the world, not my home. I put my life on hold so long.. I have very long black hair, green eyes, attractive and a decent weight. Have aged gracefully though no one believes me when I say I just turned I have nothing to hide, I look just like my most recent picture Sept Tell me more about what makes this a genuine site for older adults seeking companionship without commitment, willing to share thoughts and maybe have things in common to share.
Thank you Tom September 5, at By that I man firstly friendship to engage in being together for conversations of many topics, having visits to local places of interest, walking at interesting, venues, having a meal together even with friends. However it has to be on a pleasant and positive mindset and not to unload baggage of the past.
Surely fun and happiness should be foremost in our seventies. Linda November 20, at 8: I agree with your entire approach. It takes time to develop a friendship and determine if basics are common.
I am interested in omfortable mutual conversational in which I can learn, perhaps teach and have fun. I just ran into this site. Where do you live? That is The Best medicine. This is my first time on talking to someone. Chambers December 3, at 2: When my ex-husband about 5 years younger left for a woman 20 years younger than myself, you can bet that was upsetting and revealing.
At 60 when I was first divorced, online dating worked pretty well. These men all look for women years younger. And meanwhile my ex lives in our old house he bought me out of and also a fabulous condo on the Florida coast. No — life is not fair to mature women. Glen January 5, at 6: Life is not fair to mature women…so what girl?
Get out their and fight the good fight. You do the best you can…i mean stay in all the time? Why in the hell do women or men have such a hard time eating alone at a restaurant? I never got that.
I have dined alone with a boy and without more times. Take a book or paper or planner so you have something to do if your insecure. I am also quite comfortable being with others including a man. Stay open minded as you have the choice to join in a group or not. No one ever said life would be fair. No one and it is not. Unfortunately it is especially not fair for the mature female. Anyone that says different has to have blinders on!
Sorry for being mean but it is true. Just remember that we get one time around on this planet…. Let us just observe the success of this and other sites. They definitely are not doing the service for free. Can you imagine services that picked up a date for you back in the day? Haha…they would have been called something quite different. Miz Kitty March 6, at 8: They can not get their mind around that at a certain age the body slow down.
The mind is will but the body is not. Why should they want to talk about a dark subject at their age. But for us it here! Miz Kitty Elizabeth April 5, at 2: Andrew Dowling April 6, at 4: Many thanks, Johanna R June 22, at July 24, at 8: February 3, at 6: However, I still think some age indications are important. The comments about the 65 and 75 year old are true to the extent that people of exactly the same age do have different limits to their abilities, but my experience is that as we get older there are more similarities in those limitations even if not exact and there are still many other issues such as our life experiences that have made us who we are.
There are generation gaps and always will be because of the society and culture we live in at various stages of life. There is a big difference between people in their 50s and those in their 70s. I believe as I have always done that up to 7 years either side is the most to accommodate all the needs we have at various ages.
I have observed it as a psychologist and lawyer and stick to this even though some people live in the moment only so willing to accept anyone for the moment. Leslie July 10, at 8: A J Silberbusch September 14, at It definetly resonates with me and friends who are boomer babies and seniors. The real gorp September 20, at 6: We both are scared but excited. Though at times she thinks she needs to be an auntie. She admits she is afraid of her feelings.
Carol March 30, at 1: I have used 2 on-line dating sites and have noticed several things, most of which are not positive. I want to share what I have learned; perhaps another woman can benefit from my mistakes. He said he was attracted to my profile, especially my belief in God. There are reasons that dating sites recommend that you keep your conversations on the site until you meet.