This morning when I opened my email I had a question about writing something for older men giving them ideas about where they can go to specifically meet women who are looking for older men.
Even though I immediately thought of some great places where women hang out to potentially meet older men… I was quickly brought back into the reality that giving you advice about where to go at the onset of this article would be a bad idea…a very bad idea! But our views on relationships and attraction tend to morph. As women get older their attractiveness tends to diminish where as men tend to become more attractive. Women have it great the first half of their lives.
When they are young they have all of the sexual options they can handle. They are in their prime and can have sex as much as they want. As she gets older, the amount of sexual options she has decreases. We are viewed as having more wealth, being more established in life, sexually experienced, more emotionally stable, attractive, refined, confident and so on… And guess what? All of these attributes are a huge turn on for women!
Women gain interest in older men. Our older age is our best asset! No matter where women are, what age they are, what environment they are in, they will always be attracted to an older man! That is the only reason why an older woman will chose a younger man over an older man for an adventure between the sheets. Regardless of that fact, both older and younger women will still find an older man sexier and more desirable in general.
I use my age to advantage every chance I can and believe me, I sleep with a lot of 19, 20 and 21 year old women. Every young woman has sexual fantasies about an experienced older man! Women are submissive by nature, and who better to be submissive with than an older man? Of course there are! Looking for these places is just taking the easy way out. The truth is that if there is a place where women go to specifically meet older men it will probably be filled with women who are either looking for a sugar daddy or benefactor, or with older less desirable women.
The only reason why a woman would specifically go somewhere where she can meet older men is because she is either: With That All Said… Here are places guys who are older can go that will not have that type of vibe to them. Also shows that you think about something outside of yourself. Who better than an older guy?! I would suggest visiting these places regularly and see for yourself, but I would also suggest that you get the idea out of your head that you need to go somewhere specifically to meet women who are looking for older men!
Stop being ashamed of your age. Being an older man is a gift from God. We have the world at our fingertips. Rejoice in your age and use your age to your advantage.