And then it came to me. Then I remembered something else. I have a lot of posts on this blog on how to make sex feel great for HER or for you, really! So it seems like we women need more help in that department. And I know many single women are here on this blog to learn things about marriage. Here goes—how to make your husband have a great time in bed: Just start in a different position, and then switch later. And it will make you guys laugh. Now here are two particular positions that can really help: Put your legs up higher One of the things that feels amazing as a guy is to be able to thrust in as deeply as possible.
In the missionary position, if you put your legs up on his shoulders, this gives him the ability to thrust a lot more. Please, get comfortable first! I mean taking psychological pressure off. In this position, you have most of the power, so you can think about satisfying him without him worry about satisfying you. He can literally lie back and enjoy it! Also, he can use his hands in more interesting ways. Do you know how to do a Kegel exercise? Anyway, if you can learn how to use those muscles, then when he starts getting super excited, and close to climax, start squeezing him inside you rhythmically.
You have to be careful with this one, and it depends on your man, but many guys enjoy this. Take the 31 Days to Great Sex challenge with him! It will turn your marriage around. Every now and then, have sex just to see how fast he can be satisfied. He can totally just enjoy you. And YOU get to see how powerful you really are. Take it nice and slow—break up the pleasure But for real pleasure, drag it out. Think of your guy as having three stages during making love: Learn how to identify each of those three stages.
There are several ways to handle this: Order him to stop moving. Now ask him to tell you what he wants to do. That will be exquisitely frustrating for him. Repeat as often as you like! Work things so they feel great for you, but not necessarily as intense for him. Then you can let him move again for a bit.
When he seems super excited, stop, take a breather, and switch positions. This makes the immediate stimulation go down a bit and drags everything out. Whisper in his ear To make sex awesome, try to use as many senses as possible. Whisper in his ear whispering is really sexy. Leave the lights on—or give a bit of a show! Try starting out wearing something really lacy and revealing. Or leave the lights on so that he can enjoy watching you while you make love.
Let him actually see your face when you climax. Even look in his eyes. You know how baby geese will think the first thing they see moving is its mother? So let him see your face. But it draws you together so much. So there you go—10 tips to make your husband super satisfied in bed. Leave them in the comments—but tastefully, please. If you want to enjoy sex more in your marriage and you yearn to want it more, you really can boost your libido!