Are you unknowingly turning him off while having sex? Sex is natural and easy. Are you turning your guy off by the things you do or say in bed? There are few things girls do that turn guys off or leave them frustrated. But over time, the little things you say or do could traumatize a guy or even impact him psychologically on a deeper level. It may even make him hate sex, make him feel inadequate or just leave him unsatisfied.
The problem of turning him off is that it may make him hate having sex with you! Here are a few things that can annoy any guy in bed. But are you the kind of girl who expects him to go down on you each time for a good half an hour and still spend a while teasing you and running his hands all over you?
Nagging your partner constantly to indulge in excessive foreplay could scare him, or make him think twice before he even tries to sneak in a quickie with you ever again.
Do you dirty talk with your partner in bed? Does he talk about his dark fantasies while having sex with you? You need to remember that dirty talking is just that, and not something you need to take seriously or feel threatened by.
Do you try to deep throat a guy only to gag over him? When your guy loses his erection for whatever reason, do you immediately start blaming yourself? Guys love an orgasm face. Every guy loves a girl who is confident in bed.
If your boyfriend moves his hand on a particular part of your body, do you stop his hands and push it away often?
Remember, your guy loves you for who you are. Do you feel teary eyed after you have sex? Do you come to bed with a list of instructions? A guy may be grateful to you if you playfully tease or guide his hands to all the right places.
Do you tease your guy or laugh at him when he ejaculates too soon accidentally? Sexually teasing a guy is good, but teasing a guy for his capabilities is just so wrong! The very day sex starts to feel like a chore is when the sexual side of the relationship starts to go downhill. If you really want to get your guy to have sex with you for any reason at all, tease him into it instead of forcing the idea down his throat. No guy likes being forced into having sex because guys usually choke under pressure.
And the whole experience just makes him feel used! Just leave it at that. Guys hate it when a girl fakes an obvious orgasm, and then goes on to repeatedly tell the guy just how awesome the sex was. All you need to remember are these 15 things that turn him off while having sex and avoid it. Just be yourself and most importantly, communicate with each other. Liked what you just read? Gerry Sanders is a writer, and a self-proclaimed ladies man, who spends most of his time trying to learn everything about everything Follow Gerry on Twitter.