Cancel 0 Anal sex gets a bad rap. But I am a warm blooded woman that happens to love anal sex. But even more appalling are the ridiculous articles by women who do love anal sex as a degradation to the female race.
I read a twisted article from Vice about why women should only have anal sex. It was all kinds of bat-shit crazy. A deep rooted desire to be degraded? That article made me realize that women out there are being made to believe that anal sex is designed to please men and to fulfill a secret desire to be turned into a submissive degraded female.
After such an article, no wonder women are shying away from it. Here are my top reasons that women should have anal sex. Birth Controlled Sex This is a no-brainer. Sex is what men and women are designed for and it is absolutely beautiful. So the back door cures all of that since your man can come in there safely. Who wants to always be the goody two shoes? Embrace your dark side and give your man a double win.
Because we all win then. Builds Trust I know, double take right here. How does trust help sex? Which is why men LOVE it. But shoving it up there is going to hurt like hell and guarantee a kiss of death to any second chance of doing it there again.
The first time I agreed to anal sex was with my ex-boyfriend. He lit up like a Christmas tree when I said yes and of course, I trusted him to not hurt me and thankfully, I loved it.
One afternoon, I came, I kid you not.. I was batting for both types of sex now. Now the second guy I ever trusted back there, is huge. Deep-throating him was awesome and sex was mind blowing but back there?? That scared me a little and I was so ready to say no. But he was such a seducer. Deep intense eyes that promised excitement and pleasure, and sexy drawl that could melt any heart. Ever put your trust blindly into someone?
For me that was him. So yes to trust. Men love to be trusted. They love to hear us say yes to their desires and lay our pleasure in their hands. It feeds into their primal instinct to protect and naturally dominate. Trust is a gift to both parties and creates a whole other level of intimacy, which is something we ladies always want. Power for a man because he dominates and controls the situation and his shaft is feeling so good being so tightly stroked. Powerful for a woman because it means embracing her desires to willingness to allow her body to be a sex object for her man.
Hee-Hee, looks like woman have the upper hand here. Carpe Diem Bitches Bow down gentlemen. Intense Anal Orgasms This is my favorite reason. Do you not enjoy sex?
Ladies, the first step to a real orgasm is to actually enjoy sex and embrace the crazy dirty hot nasty side of it. Ever rub the palm of your hand? Feels pretty good and kind of ticklish. Now rub the back of your hand.
The sensitivity is higher and it feels even more tingly! I am not a self-depreciating, submissive mouse of a woman. I am a successful corporate working business woman with a sharp fashion sense and heels as high as my standards and my sex drive. I LOVE anal sex.
But I think that all women should try it at least once. Do it because you choose it as an act that makes you feel like a woman who is desired and powerful in her sexuality. Not as a woman who is degraded and wants to be brought low. Christian Grey is not real ladies. So, try it out…you and your man will thank me later. You will be okay.