When men fall in love with a woman, there are ALWAYS 2 traits that the woman exhibits, whether consciously or subconsciously. And surprisingly this works like clock work, it works as consistently as the law of gravity.
Surely there are exceptions… Well, as it turns out, not really. In other words, we as a species depended on this emotional mechanism to help us survive for hundreds of thousands of years. I want you to experience first hand how this works for you. You see, for a man to fall in love with any woman, he has to perceive the woman exhibiting these two traits at a very subconscious level.
This is important, so listen up. Why being attractive is NOT one of these 2 traits. So before I reveal to you what these 2 traits are, let me just tell you that being attractive is NOT one of these 2 traits.
Are there plenty of women on this planet who are naturally attractive but still being treated like a doormat? All you have to do is look around. The truth is, every single day, men are falling in love with average looking women. To compete with all the other bitches out there! We all have that inside of us. To inspire a man to fall in love, requires a completely different approach. But to inspire a man to fall in love, requires a completely different approach.
And thats what I want to share with you. Your physical beauty makes no difference in his emotionally driven mind. I repeat, it is your ability to show up as a high value high status woman. Click here to get notified of our new video series on becoming high value high status Let me explain. We as human beings live in hierarchies. We always have this ladder of hierarchy in our subconscious mind and we carry it around everywhere we go.
But for everyone else, we needed our tribe in order to survive. So our brains literally are built to always work with other people in the ladder of hierarchy. In fact, this subconscious need for hierarchy exist in every single species of animal that live in groups. Think about a pride of lions or a troop of monkeys. There are always this ladder of hierarchy.
There are always a few alpha leaders, and so on and so on… We are very much the same. We do it instinctively because we are trying to figure out where they fit on our mental projection of this ladder of hierarchy. The ONLY thing that really matters is to present and prove your value as a woman.
And of course, men do the same to prove their value as men. You could be your own celebrity. You could hold yourself as a celebrity. After all, status is only ever just a perceived thing. Brad pitt put in a remote tribe of amazonian hunters would have no perceived status, unless he earns it. And thats the good news because you too, can show up to be high value high status regardless of your age, your financial situation, your IQ or who your friends are… if you know how.
I would love to get into the how, but that is beyond the scope of this article… I can fill a whole weekend seminar on just the how, but I just wanted to plant the idea with you right now. In fact we teach that transformational process of becoming high value high status in some of our programs.
I know a lot of people talk about compatibility, I hate it. I believe if someone is truly in love with you, they will move mountains to make things work. But it really comes down to value and status and your ability to show up as a high value high status woman. I really want you to remember this, your job is to give the perception that you are indeed highly valuable as a woman. If you like me to teach you more about how to show up as high value high status, just let me know by leaving me a comment below.
Men fall in love with women who are high value high status. Men never fall in love with women who are low value. And that is universally true. Not to mention, men routinely take advantage of, use and abuse women who present themselves as low value. But… being high value high status will only get you half way there. Trait 2 It is your ability to be open and vulnerable in spite of fear. Here is the second trait of women that men routinely fall in love with.
And that trait is vulnerability. Click here to learn more about vulnerability. In spite of how much fear there always will be when it comes to love. To be in love means that you have to be fully open to the experience. We have to go deep. In this day and age, a lot of us have been encouraged to push down our emotions, and make them wrong. What would be the emotional reason for him to invest his energy and time with you?
How is he ever going to feel like a man? A man is compelled to take care of you and devote himself to you because of your vulnerability. It gives him the permission to protect you. It makes him feel alive, it gives him purpose. Your ability to feel your emotions and express your emotions are the very reasons why men want to commit to you and take care of you.
Unfortunately most people have the false idea that vulnerability is weak. They are very different. Neediness is in fact an expression of low value. Why is it a sign of low value? Neediness is about value extraction. Vulnerability on the other hand, true vulnerability is an expression of high value. But firstly you have to get in touch with your own emotions. Give your emotions space and time to surface so that you can experience them. They are here to serve you, even though they may seem scary at times.
And once you can truly face your own emotions, then you can truly connect with a man on the deepest of levels and create an emotional bond that even soul mates are envious of. So if you want a man to fall deeply in love with you, focus on these 2 traits. The skill of showing up as a high value high status woman, and your ability to express your vulnerability in order to connect on a deep emotional level.
In fact, we teach you 4 weeks worth of this in our Commitment Control 2 program. I guarantee it will shift your outlook and mindset about men, dating and commitment. Click to read more about Commitment Control 2. Shen Commitment Triggers P. Not that I want you to have pain, but sometimes we can only either have the understanding or the pain. These 5 fundamental truths will shift that for you. What will becoming high value high status and yet vulnerable mean to you and your love life?
How is this going to help you in the future? Until next time, make sure you look after yourself, give yourself the resources you need so that you can show up as the high value high status woman you were meant to be.