You must be logged in to post a comment. Yes, Your Wife Loves Sex! Troy Spry - 13 Oct '15 Intimacy Share this article! WELP… fellas, while you were sharing and commenting and tagging your wives to that article, I have to address the other side because it takes two to tango! Why does my man always want sex? So, here are some things that will hopefully help you and your woman get it on a little, no, a lot more often.
She needs to be attracted to you too!! I started with this one for a reason. She wants to see you healthy and without that beer belly. How about you also retire those old sweats and try putting on some nice clothes occasionally and give her some good ole eye candy?! You may not think it matters to her, but it does. It starts in her mind and heart!
Sex is highly mental for a woman and her desire to have sex with you starts way before the physical action begins. It also starts with compliments and thoughtful gestures. Fellas, your lady is always fighting a battle with other women, herself, and society about physical appearance, and she needs you, as her man, to affirm how beautiful you think she is.
This means tell her, touch her, flirt with her, and let her know you only have eyes for her. When she changes something like her hair, nails, fragrance, clothes, etc. All of these things make her feel wanted, desired, and sexy. You play a big role in this, so embrace that role and stop dismissing it and thinking she is just insecure.
Switch it up with spontaneity! Change up some little things such as positions, where it goes down, and when it goes down. Maybe you need a little lunch break sex in a hotel close to her job. Try these 7 sexy ways to help your spouse relieve work related stress and ignite your marriage. Put some effort into the Foreplay and romanticism! Be romantic; set the atmosphere; play the music and get out the candles and bubble bath you know all those things you USED to do.
Once you get her turned on, then she will give you all you can handle. But, take your time! Make it easy for her to find the time and energy Help her out! Understand that, to a woman, her kids and her household are a big deal, and she is going to make sure those things are taken care of. Ask her how you can help take some things off of her plate. If she is spending all of her energy doing all of the things you could be helping with, then that might be why she ends up snoring before sexing.
Simply ask how you can help and then do the things you say you are going to do. Guys, instead of getting defensive about the things she needs to help increase her sex drive, just embrace them. Remember, at the core of marriage is a willingness to serve one another and sometimes that means loving your mate how they need to be loved and not how you WANT to love them!
BMWK ladies what other things do men need to understand more about women and sex? About the author Troy Spry wrote articles on this blog. He created his blog, Xklusive Thoughts, with the intent of putting out a very realistic perspective and using it as a vehicle for inspiration!
He hopes to challenge people to think differently and inspire people to do and be better in relationships and in life!