Niche Dating for the Ugly People. But does that make them ugly? There's no way around it for me. I have always placed aesthetics above practical reason and substance most of my life. I lucked out in finding a lovely woman who has a lot going on under the hood, too, meaning she's awesome.
However, I can't deny the fact that, yeah, I always look on the outside first. With that in mind, it's something I've carried with me on the variety of online dating sites I've been a part of over the years.
That's how one gets dates. Of course it's right. That's the nature of the human beast; to seek out that which demands our attention. Yet another in a long line of niche dating sites catering to a specific demographic. There's really no definition of what ugly means, as it means something different to each of us. Some people do love the uni-brow, after all. We have niche dating sites for women looking for rich men, dating sites for only beautiful people and dating sites for vampire midgets who like to wrestle in oil.
I mean, the shear breadth and variety of niche sites is insanely huge and this isn't news, I realize. Consider me officially crushed. You see, how can anything positive come from such a dating site? It's a site predicated on the the understanding that the people on this site are of a different standard then everyone else.
I think that sucks. I mean, now there is this option, a dating site, that really stirs that inner dialogue and makes one ask: Why should people feel the need to join a site built on a shared negative perception? Perhaps it's as simple as a need to belong with others like ourselves. I just don't understand how it is a good thing to promote such a notion. Perhaps I am simply naive.
I don't believe that, though. I feel it's my positive attitude and self love that makes feel like I'm a good person who ain't too shabby looking. Anyway, the site that got me started on this path is the Ugly Bug Ball.
Check it out and let us know what you think.