Other variations include arousal from wetting or seeing someone else urinate in their pants or underclothes, or wetting the bed. Other forms of urolagnia may involve a tendency to be sexually aroused by smelling urine-soaked clothing or body parts. In many cases, a strong correlation or conditioning arises between urine smell or sight, and the sexual act. Urolagnia is sometimes associated with, or confused with, arousal from having a full bladder or a sexual attraction to someone else experiencing the discomfort or pain of a full bladder, possibly a sadomasochistic inclination.
Common variations Clothes wetting: The person is sexually aroused by wetting one's clothing or observing another person doing so. The warm sensation felt when urine trickles on the body seems to give very relaxing and pleasurable feelings to the person.
In many cases, that person is also aroused by smelling body parts that have a urine scent. Others get aroused by telling some people about when they lost control and wet themselves. Some prefer a particular type of clothing to urinate. Becoming noticeably desperate or wetting oneself with the express purpose of being seen by strangers. Practitioners have described going to public places such as a mall or a park. Some intend to create situations where others can see their wet clothing.
Within the BDSM community, some individuals desire to be used as a human urinal and some desire to use a human urinal. The submissive is usually strictly forbidden from placing their lips directly on the body of the dominant so the practice routinely involves them receiving much of the spray all over their face, hair and body; however, another way of doing this that applies mostly to male dominants, is to place the mouth on the head of the penis and drink the urine as it is released.
One other, less common variation of this kink involves the dominant partner urinating inside the submissive partner's vagina or anus, which is usually followed up by the submissive partner ejecting the urine from their orifice s. The act of holding one's own urine until the need to urinate is urgent, making another hold in their urine, or watching another person with an urgent need to urinate.
This fetish sometimes originates from childhood memories of needing, or of seeing another needing, to urinate. Arousal may be triggered by seeing the body movements or facial expressions of that person. It can also be heightened by the person saying that they have to urinate. The arousal from being desperate comes from the sensation of having a full bladder.
The strategies and tactics that are used to smuggle one of the couple into and out of the toilet undetected are as important or almost as important as the urination.
The activity is done by itself or as a part of or prelude to other activities which many times involve sex. Seeing another urinate without the person's knowledge either through video taping by a hidden camera, or by lurking in locations where people are urinating or are likely to have an urge to urinate.
Frequency Jennifer Eve Rehor of San Francisco State University points out that such data as exists on what she calls "unconventional" or "kink" sexual behavior is generally problematic because of the way that it has been collected, through criminal and clinical case studies. Rehor therefore surveyed 1, female participants in "kink" behavior mostly association with BDSM in , receiving 1, valid responses. What Rehor calls "urine play" is relatively infrequent, with only Notable urophiliacs British sexologist Havelock Ellis.
American musician who was featured urinating on a woman in a sex tape , and was sued for videotaping dozens of women in the bathroom of a restaurant he owned.
British sexologist who was impotent until at age sixty he discovered that he was aroused by the sight of a woman urinating. He wrote several letters to widows with want-ads in The New York Times and described in detail women urinating on him, inside of him, and in cups so that he could drink it. He later forced children to drink urine. Nova Scotian fiddler and singer. In he spoke with a Maclean's interviewer mentioning his sexual life, including his boyfriend and his taste for urolagnia.
In he told an interviewer for the Montreal Mirror that he loves to have men urinate on him. He gave an interview with Blender magazine in which he stated that he enjoyed "giving the golden shower.
American standup comedian who had on several occasions mentioned his appreciation for golden showers, even stating that his girlfriend noticing that his urine tasted like "birthday cake" is how he came to find out that he suffered from diabetes. Her stage name is derived from her obsession with fluids.
Convicted in December of numerous child sex abuse charges, which include urolagnia.