A better question would be who thinks about it, but fears talking about it? It looks like more than half of you raised your hands. Christian marriage or not, lack of sexual pleasure still plays a major role in leading to mutual relationship dissatisfaction. Often enough one partner feels pressured to have sex while the other feels sexually deprived. One hungers for frequent touch and intimacy while the other prefers it moderation. In the end, many of us tend to bottle up the discussion of intimate Christian marriage sex and hope our frustrations sort themselves out.
Furthermore, the Lord our Savior is the only judge whose opinion counts. As many of us agree, God designed sex for husband and wife to enjoy. Maybe couples should pray to achieve mutual satisfaction in the Christian marriage bed, and maybe, just maybe, His answer is to bring you to posts like this one, as well as the ones I point to within it. Only recently have I even returned to God over an extensive hiatus. Because I am a sexual freak. And the kind I mean refers to the no-holds-barred, blood-rushing kind- intimate sex which combines emotional, physical and spiritual connection.
All of you reading this who are married and Christian consider yourselves fortunate because all the boneheads out there like me who fell to temptation to premarital sex will never completely have what you have. We will never enjoy the complete package experience you got to live through as virgins. It fascinates me to the core. As of the writing of this post I have recently returned to God after finally surrendering my soul to Him after over a decade of tiresome years attempting to do things my way.
And the opportunity sits within your grasp so I wish to share some of the most useful intimate Christian marriage sex tips which I read that inspired me. This post is for those of you who want a more pleasurable Christian marriage sex life, but feel ashamed to talk about it or even think about it. Does your Christian marriage practice unconditional love? One suggestion they share is to learn what your partner wants sexually and also what you like. Discover new positions that you and your partner enjoy.
Pleasing your partner and learning how to coach them through what you like will set the mood for comfortable and enjoyable lovemaking with your spouse. Do not hold back. Practice inhabitable sex both physically and emotionally.
Read the full article here. Huge turn offs for us men. But YES, by all means shout out our names, please! Wyatt Fisher licensed psychologist on ChristianCrush. Wives on the other hand tend to be ready for sex after their husband performs ten points to make her feel special such as making her a cup of coffee, calling her during her lunch break at work or a long intimate conversation. Great easy-to-follow tip for men! Check out his full article here. Oral Sex in Christian Marriages? Is It a Sin?
Someone had to say it and Julie Sibert at IntimacyinMarriage. Check out her post as she argues that there is no Biblical evidence stating that oral sex in the Christian marriage bed is sinful. I love how she takes a stand against those close-minded Christians who say sex purely for making babies.
How to touch her vagina. Sounds pretty steamy, right? Do not just get excited about number 4. I think the tips that deal with the emotional side of Christian marriage sex life supersede the physical. Ladies, please check it out to in order to learn more what we men struggle with. Married Christian Sex Nymphos. I could imagine that some Christian wives feel no inhibition to have sex.
And sure enough I found a site for such women to relate to each other who have high sex drive. Some women have higher testosterone than others. Check out the site ChristianNymphos.
The domain name is actually ChristianFriendlySexPositions. Yes, that is not a typo. Visitors to the site can search by different parameters such as degree of difficulty, stimulation positions or which spouse takes control.
Each position contains blue and pink cartoon stick figures which illustrate how to perform the position. The fact that the site promotes sex toys seems odd to me and leads me to believe they are not actually Christians. You can decide for yourself. Check out this peculiar site here. Either way, an interesting read. How Marriage Ruins Sex Huh?
The structure of Christian marriage can get in the way of our ability to enjoy intimacy with our partners if we do not understand the purpose behind it according to Jay Dee at UncoveringIntimacy. And we must seek to understand His ultimate plan for Christian marriage. Very insightful and well-thought out post. On the other hand, I do know what it is like to live in a relationship where our schedules conflict. And when this happens just sitting around expecting spontaneous sex to occur can lead to repetitive disappointment.
Mike Genung at BlazingGrace. Allow for ample time to set the mood and enjoy it without pressure to rush and finish on time. I especially like his point about how Satan does everything to ruin our relationships. I love the post I discovered at BibleReasons. Read the post Christian Sex Positions here. How Far Is Too Far? I think it is safe to say that we all struggle with one aspect or another in the Christian married sex life. We all have dozens of questions for which we seek answers.
To make the challenge even more difficult our partners may not share the same sexual views or drive.