Sex-Positive Porn and Resources Sexual health and emotional support resources, hand-picked erotic entertainment websites, and much more. These links are carefully vetted, examined and regularly checked and maintained.
They are the real deal; they are my personal selections. Tiny Nibbles does not accept payment for endorsements, reviews, or editorial link placement. Websites I affiliate with are personal friends, sites that are respectful and tasteful, and have brands and images I have decided reflect my values and the sophisticated values of my readers, viewers and listeners.
I consider them the cream of the crop. Read my sexual safety section about unsafe products if you are unsure. If a site I link to has a pay section, I promise there will certainly be some other merit to make it worth your while. Quick jump to categories: On the other hand, I love tips about finding cool new stuff and you can let me know about neat, smart, sophisticated things in the world of erotica and porn by dropping me an email: Do you have a sex, sexual health or sexual identity question?
Know someone who does? The following, carefully-screened websites have answers. AIM not only provides resources and help, but they raise awareness about health and safety for the adult industry and beyond. Get info about testing and more, or just give your tax-free donations to one of the best causes in the world.
Centers for Disease Control: Gay Lesbian International Therapist Search Engine — Find professional counselors who are sensitive to gay and lesbian issues. Not all the therapists are themselves gay or lesbian. Generation Five For survivors of sexual abuse, sexual trauma, incest, rape, and people who love someone who is a survivor, this is truly a life-saving resource.
All genders and orientations welcome. Read my helpful interview with the founder in the San Francisco Chronicle sfgate. They have over 18, listings for the entire US, including groups, organizations, business, bars, doctors, lawyers, therapists, etc. Their web site mirrors the casual and fun tone of the book, but also has tons of info in columns about sexual health, and sex and disability resources.
Herpes and HPV support groups, information and dating advice: The Kinsey Institute Dedicated to research, scholarship, plus events and a gallery. This fun, rambunctious video podcast by a very cool mom covers all kinds of sex topics, and gets the conversation started with parents and especially for teens.
Her site is a gateway to the academy, but is also a fantastic resource. They have an incredible religion and sexuality resource page. Also en Espanol at SexualidadesLatinas. Go here for up to date, factual safer sex info — I do not recommend Wikipedia because the safer sex page is constantly updated with factual errors and is subject to edit wars so can not be trusted as a permanent source of accurate safer sex info.
Queer Net Chat, message boards, discussions, and you can create your own discussions in this huge global network. They also do email hotline info — drop them a line and ask them a question! Scarleteen Very cool site of sex info for teens. Society for Human Sexuality They have a vast resource here: The Human Rights Campaign has this great resource page with tips on coming out for all sides of the equation.
Direct answers to questions about coming out are here glbtnationalhelpcenter. Transgender Forum This is the heart of all resources for primarily male-to-female trans info, advice, community and resources.
The Trevor Project is the leading national accredited organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning LGBTQ youth. How we all react to sexually explicit imagery varies from person to person. There are more kinds of porn and erotica than anyone can imagine: Be a smart porn shopper: Most of all, enjoy your fantasies to their fullest and decide for yourself what you think about your relationship with explicit imagery. This is my personal handpicked list: I screen for quality, privacy, tastefulness, enjoyment of the performers, ethics of the creators and focus on female pleasure.
Hope you like my picks. Safe porn surfing resources include: Read my privacy book , seriously. Originally from Australia and now based in Holland, the site is a nonstop source for real people having real sex, and they have a very active online community. And here we never see the homophobic, natural-body-phobic, fun-phobic mainstream porn industry attitudes. Read my interview with the groundbreaking British female director creator in the San Francisco Chronicle sfgate.
See her films directly on Hot Movies For Her: Women Love Porn — Anna Span. Highly recommended; based in Australia. She also has an excellent, highly-recommended line of ergonomic vibrators.
They make films, they tell stories, and most importantly, they have lots of hardcore sex. A Hardcore Love Story. This site has a loyal following that encompasses all genders and sexual orientations. Cult Epics Vintage porn and erotica is a great place to start — or stay a while and enjoy yourself.
Cult Epics is a find-and-a-half for people seeking to purchase sophisticated porn, especially vintage explicit erotic films. CutePet Hentai, pinups and comics depicting outrageous, extremely explicit sex, all within genre categories.
The art is really amazing, and so are the delightfully impossible, erotically exaggerated fantasies. Divine Bitches The best FemDom site on the web, and then some!
Very high production values, and the men really get punished — with clear consent. Dorcel Club If high-end, moneyed, exquisite, filthy French porn sounds like your cup of tea, prepare ti have your mind blown. I love this site.
Evil Angel Fairly extreme hardcore, even with female directors: Explicite Art I was delighted to discover this French explicit porn site. Enjoy the free fruits of my research to find us all some good quality European pr0ns. Fatale Media The makers of some of the finest independent lesbian porn available and they carry many lesbian classics. Naughty and her blog, and store, and general kick-ass attitude toward porn for women.
Indy-owned and the largest porn for women empire on the Internet. Heterosexual focus, includes erotica, porn, galleries and more. Frolic Me Gorgeous, very hot woman-run site of films, stories and more — with really sexy performers — all of which makes me wish there were more like this.
A paysite with lots of hot freebees, and new machines being invented all the time. VR Porn Resource Center The wonderful, sex-positive people at Future of Sex put together this terrific resource guide to the burgeoning world of VR virtual reality porn. Read their guide on how to watch it, a list of the top sites right now, hardware and software reviews, and more.
Girlfriend Handjobs This site is fantastic for so many reasons: Very high quality, lots of super-hot couplings hetero and girl-girl , they make it seem like Australia is full of gorgeous men and women, and that sex with an Aussie is fun, fun, fun. Their site is easy to use and they prize privacy. Hot Movies for Her A full porn shopping theater curated by women, for women — with a wide range of tastes, from mainstream to outsider.
The porn loving women at Hot Movies got tired of having no place in the adult market or having the market treat them like they only watched what their boyfriends cajoled them into watching. So they actively handpick through the largest online adult library to find the best movies: Pick your porn preference in their specialty theaters or browse the full collection in their main theater.
Watch videos online discreetly with no monthly or recurring charges. Pay as you go. They also have a blog featuring reviews, tips, stories, interviews and more. I Shot Myself Women-run, Australian amateur website under that features women of all hot varieties making their own explicit photo shoots. Very yummy, lots of hot free content, and there are some really nice, smart and articulate women behind this enterprise.
I Feel Myself The same women who run I Shot Myself have this tasteful, sexy and really fabulous Aussie amateur video masturbation website: I know women and men who know where to find free porn but pay for this site, and this site alone. High quality and tasteful, with regular free content.
JoyBear Superb British porn site, with high production values and great offerings. They had a very well-received launch in the press, as a sophisticated porn site for couples who like their romance mixed with raunch. Joymii If Apple made porn, it would probably look like this. I spent a lot of time there — do look at the free movies. Juliland has been around for a few years, though recently the site and all the ancillary media has gotten really slick — no DRM on the videos, among many other nice touches.
Ashton is a smart and powerful woman who runs the site hands-on, and graduated from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. They have over a dozen different high-end websites with tastes from the mild to the extreme, and many of their websites are surprisingly run, scripted and directed by women. Their safety rules and regulations are outstanding.