My fiance and I are new to the nudist lifestyle. We have never been to another Clothing Optional resort except for Caliente. We are not swingers. We love the freedome to be nude and have made awesome lifelong friends at Caliente. We try to go every month or so. Over the course of our visits we have noticed that the "Theme" parties they throw on Saturday nights are catering to promoting a swinging and sexual atmosphere.
We have no desire to a part of the lifestyle and usually will stay away from the Disco Club when these are going on. The few times we did go in there to check it out, we had a lot of people staring at us and propositioning us. My fiance is very beautiful and we are a young couple so I guess this may be a compliment, but it happens so often we have started to be very tired of it.
Last Saturday we could not seem to escape the lifestyle people. They would come up, say hi, act vey friendly, which is not unusual at Caliente. But then they would ask if we were going to the party, to come meet their husband, some other guys husband starts kissing her hand, and we realize we are being targeted and they are after something But then they would ask if we were going to the party, to come meet their husband, some other guys husband starts kissing her hand, and we realize we are being targeted and they are after something sexual.
And this was during the day! At night a swinger couple came down to our NUDIST friendly kareoke session and started to touch themselves while they were singing. My fiance went up to them to explain that we are not lifestyle people down here and to act appropriatly are they will anger some people.
They thanked her and then the guy groped her butt. It was to the point where she felt dirty and violated. She had to go shower off immediatly and was very upset the rest of the night. I wish I could say that security handled this correctly but the fact that security was called and came down there three times and this couple was never escorted out basically tells me that security is worthless.
The couple didn't leave until they had 6 people around them asking them leave based on the fact that he had grabbed 3 women's butt's who all had their husbands there. I know that this swinger couple may be the inappriopriate minority of the lifestyle contigent at Caliente, but our experience has me and my fiance considering making hats that say "We are aren't swingers - so don't ask" just in order to be treated respectfully.
Had this guy groped 3 wives at a regular bar he probably would have been harmed physically and at the very least escorted out by bouncers that are worth something.
If you are a nudist, then I would urge you to come here just so that we purists don't become the minority. If you are a swinger, then you need to realize that we don't want to be propositioned or groped. We are respecting your lifestyle choice so please be respectful of ours. And if you are coming there to gawk at us then don't be offended when we ask you to leave. More Show less Stayed: July , traveled as a couple Value.