The Summer is upon us, which means more opportunities for guys who live in colder regions to get laid more since hotties are now crawling out of their Winter hibernation looking to get laid also [mutual accord]! Irrespective of the season, talking dirty with women should be a huge part of your seduction repertoire. Bad timing is the most common mistake we make as men. Another common mistake when it comes to talking dirty is to jump right into it without warming the girl up first.
Although not a mistake per se, but more of a conditioning, the average guy gets paralyzed at the thought of getting verbally dirty with women [sexually]. It feels unnatural and wrong. Contrary to popular belief and falsified bullshit put out there by women, talking dirty with your date is actually possible and a great sign of things to come! Flirting quite naturally has the potential to lead to dirty talking since flirting is the proverbial spring-board to getting you there.
Ok guys, that was just a template of how to get sexual over dinner. That is how you introduce dirty talking while on a dinner date or any date for that matter. The key is to start small by insinuating and hinting at sex. For guys who are uncomfortable with talking dirty, this can be challenging.
Nevertheless, it comes down to crawling first! This is where texting comes in pretty handy for starters. You can send her the following txt dialogue [straight out of my phone with my girlfriend: Eem, that seems so sexy when you type it. At the end of the chat, the convo became more vivid as I told her how much I wanted to slide this cock down her throat until she begged for me to stop!
That was a perfect example of how to initiate sex talk with your girlfriend or wife. A new girl stranger for that matter: For a master Pickup Artist and seducer like I am: Flirting at the bar Fore-note: Bars and nightclubs are sexually charged environments where chicks are opened to being hit on and treated as sex objects.
But how many guys actually get sexual with strange women at bars? Perhaps that 1 drunk guy in the entire venue? Be aware of your surroundings [ have Social Intelligence ].
You cannot initiate sex talk while the target girl is within earshot of her girlfriends. This is where the drunk guy goes wrong…although he has the right idea. You will have to isolate her first. But I mean it this time. Ok guys, hopefully you get the point of how to go sexual verbally with strange girls at bars. Dirty talking should be commenced subtly using sexual innuendos before getting sexually explicit.
As you become good at this [sexualization], you will then be able to get away with full-blown sex talk from the get-go with random strangers at nightlife settings. Doing so will create too much cognizant dissonance, thus making her feel slutty for talking that way with a guy whom she never even met before…then she will flake on you!!! In the past, I was guilty of making this crucial mistake many times where I would meet a girl on Facebook through mutual friends, we hit it off from the start, dirty talk ensues via Facebook chat, we set up a meet up- then she flakes at the last moment.
With that being said: Sure you can flirt over text or phone conversation, but keep it light in order to avoid making her feel slutty. Dirty talking is an art. Your biggest challenges will be your own mind and inhibitions: Tame your inner inhibition when it comes to talking dirty with women, and just let it all hang out but with tact and skills.
Start small and non sexual! If all fails as far as becoming comfortable with sex talk, a great way to achieve this is to speak with a phone-sex operator. You can simply request an explicit chat solely instead of actual phone sex , just to get a sense of what it is and how it is to talk dirty to a woman and have her engage in the dialogue.