When I re-launched my blog, I promised an amalgamation of all of my various writing personas. This particular post has had 12, views! Most of the time, the things you need to build a really detailed scenario are already at home, or easily attainable with little expense.
This is a totally neutral word, a word that has nothing to do with sex, that both partners can recognize as a pause button. The safe word is used at any point, and you can resume play when the issue that led to the safe word is resolved. The more detail, the better. Think about who this escort is.
Is she smart and polished? Is she trashy and street-smart? Does she have a signature move, like a silk scarf she wears tied around her neck to use for bondage play later?
Will she only meet clients wearing four-inch hoops? Think high, high shine. I love MAC Lip gloss for dress-up. They are really sticky and have real staying power when put to the test. For a truly trashy look, line your lips first with a pencil several shades darker than the gloss.
This is often all that is left behind, and for some reason this look makes guys mental. The commentary alone is sexy here. This gal is so, so cute and she has a great on-camera personality.
Here is part two: Otherwise, the privacy of a cheap motel is awesome. The escort should arrive on the scene to meet the client.
The idea is to stay out of sight until you arrive at the appointment. Trust me, the anticipation and impact of that first glimpse of you properly tarted-up will do half the work for you. Take your time getting ready, ladies. You may find that the process of getting made up and dressed up for sex is highly arousing. This scene can even be a total surprise, so long as you have a good cover for why you need an hour plus for prep.
Text your man when you are at the ten-minutes-to-show-time mark, so he knows to either hide while you leave the house, or to be ready for your arrival. If your visit is an at-home surprise: Please hang out in the [insert room in house away from the main entrance].
If the client knows about the scenario, he can prepare drinks, music, and anything else he might like cameras, towels, toys, movies, etc. The kit should be a fully-loaded arsenal of anything or everything you might use to play out the scenario. Be very gracious to your client upon meeting him. Give him your sexiest smile, delicately shake his hand, and introduce yourself with your ridiculous new name. Your client may be very sweet. He may offer you a drink, or a snack.
Only take these things if offered, and make sure to take whatever is offered to you. Assuming your partner knows about any pre-existing food allergies, etc. Answer his questions as vaguely and sexily as you can. If you are playing at home, and notice any family photos, do not comment on them. A pro would never make her client reflect on his wife and children. What kind of naughty, naughty person would have a prostitute in their family home? These are the moments when role-play makes me want to giggle.
You may decide to settle up payment first, you may decide that the date is on his account hahaha! Let him instruct you and remember your only goal is customer satisfaction. Let the client remove his own clothes as he decides that he wants to. DO NOT remove your shoes or your stockings or any jewelry at any point, unless he tells you to. Both parties should try to remain in character, unless the safe word is used. As you grow more comfortable with this particular scenario, move the location elsewhere.
Costuming may have to be slightly modified for public appearance, but a new locale can pack a powerful punch for both players. Challenge yourself to not feel shy or self-conscious.
Be dirty with the compliments. We all love to hear these things, believe me. Wait to get off when the scenario has ended. This scenario is so delicious, and open to so many variables. Re-visit it as often as you like. Really explore your relationship, and the joy of sex that is strictly about getting each other off. Send me an email or share in comments below.
If you have a variation of this scenario that you can recommend, please share it with us. You deserve it, and I hope it makes for a delicious weekend!