Pause for a second: This is especially true if you start to bleed down there, or if it hurts so badly that you can barely get through the sex session.
Anyway, back to sex positions. There are a few ways to try to alleviate pain during sex — go slower, use more lube, etc. One of the easiest ways? Consider a change of position. Certain positions could be rubbing you the wrong way no pun intended! And before you even try an of these you have to make sure that you are 1 properly lubed and 2 actually ready to have sex.
Test out these sex positions that might make sex more enjoyable. Next Pillow Under Waist This is a simple but effective position if you find yourself in pain during sex.
Lay down with a pillow under your hips and have bae lay on top of you as you wrap your knee around them. The pillow raises your hips so you are at a more accessible angle for penetration, so it's more likely to hurt less. Source Girl On Top Okay, being on top can hurt, especially if you're still new to sex, but it actually puts you in control, so if you are feeling pain, you can adjust quickly. Have your bae sit cross-legged and sit on top of them. You can balance on their chest to make it easier for you and go as fast or slow as you are comfortable!
Source Bed Spread This might not work for everyone, but it's worth a shot. Sometimes, this type of position can be super painful because of how a penis can hit your cervix. But, with your bae standing up and you laying down with your legs off of the bed, your bae his limited motion, which means they can't go too deep and hurt you, especially if they are holding your legs.
Source Spooning This is similar to the Bed Spread, since your bae can't get too deep when you are on your side, which is a good thing! Start off in a spooning position, then try to position yourself in a way so that you can be penetrated. It might take some time to find an angle you're comfortable with, but it will be worth it. Source Leg Lock Sometimes, the angle makes all the difference when it comes to sex. If you are sitting on a surface a table or chair, to instance it can be a lot easier to have someone inserted inside you, which can make it less painful.
Try sitting on a table make sure there is a towel down, though and have your bae stand next to the table, holding your legs. Source 69ing Again, this one isn't penetrative sex, but that doesn't make it any less awesome! Lie on your back and have your bae kneel over you, as your line up your genitals. Source Standing If sex is really hurting you, then you should take a break from penetrative sex for a while!
Try sticking to non-penetrative positions for a little bit. It will help you feel more comfortable with your partner, and might help make you more ready to have sex.