THE OM For long-lasting clitoral stimulation, settle into this comfortable position and stay a while. Get extra-close, and grind against your partner, says Kerner: Switch up your movements, says Kerner. Have her try rubbing up and down against you until she finds what feels best. Ride high and focus on pressing down on her body, says Kerner.
Instead of doing all the work, have her slip her arms around your back, and while holding her close, let her rub her body against yours. The added pressure might be just what she needs to reach the big O.
Given that her clitoris can be anywhere from 2. Deviate from the thrusting norm, and focus on friction for maximum results. That grinding action will help stimulate her clitoris. Lean your body back. Rubbing against her will help her get the stimulation she needs, says Kerner. Support her weight, then have her lean back for more clitoral contact against your body.
Think of it as you dipping her during a dance, says Kerner. With your support, she can get a good rhythm going. If the thrusting makes it hard for you to keep your hand on target, grind against her in circles instead. Less in-and-out motion can make for a more consistent connection. If she wants a stronger touch, thrust deeper inside of her so your pelvic area presses harder against her clitoris.
Scoot your entire body higher up horizontally. Lean over even more so your hand can stay pressed up against her clitoris, or transition from thrusting into smoother grinding motions. This allows her to support herself enough to massage her clitoris while you thrust. This position offers the best of both worlds: One of you can slip a hand down south to get the most out of this position. Wear A Condom 7. Reposition your body a bit higher so your pelvis is right against her clitoris, says Kerner.
Instead of regular thrusting, move her body up and down against yours. Stabilise her body she might have to come down from the balls of her feet unless you can support her with one hand , and touch her clitoris the way she wants you to.