Sexual Positions If there's one thing that interests all of us, it's information about sex positions. The search term "sex positions" receives about 10, searches a day on Google, and throws up about 3 million results.
If anything else, this is certainly proof of how interested people are in learning about sexual techniques, whether they're in a long term relationship or not. And you know what? It's not hard to understand why: Well, we're trying different sex techniques fun! We will show you loads of different sex positions, ones that you might not have seen or tried so far.
We have lots of sexual techniques, as well as guidance about what makes different sex techniques pleasurable for different people. Another difference between us and some of the sites that you might have seen on the Internet is that we are all about making sex joyous and fun! A lot of porn sites depict sexual relationships in quite a dark way, with the woman often looking like she's not having a great time at the end of the usually very well endowed stud who's fucking her. So we've taken care to make sure that all our positions pictures depict models who are enjoying themselves and who respect and like each other.
Our sexual techniques information is based on years of experience working with couples, and we've employed a whole team of experienced sex experts to put the material on this site together for you.
So, whether you're looking for sexual techniques to help you start out in your sex life, or whether you're looking for techniques to make your relationship more passionate, exciting and fun, we can probably help you. So if you're ready for an exciting ride, read on… we start with information about everybody's favorite sexual technique, man on top!
Man On Top Sexual Techniques Man on top is the position in which we have more sex, more often, than any other position, and so there must be some pretty powerful reasons why it's so pleasurable.
To start with, this is a great position for overcoming the difficulties associated with anorgasmia - the term for this in men being delayed ejaculation - the man's inability to "come" in a timely way - because the deep penetration and vigorous thrusting can really help him to get a much greater level of stimulation.
Second, men like to dominate women during sex. Sure, they may not want to do that all the time, and they may like their woman to ride them every so often, but mostly men want to feel dominant during sex. One way to get that feeling is to be on top during sex, imagining they're holding their partner down while thrusting deep into her body.
Equally, women want to be protected and loved, they don't want to feel vulnerable during sex, and guess what? Many women say that man on top sex makes them feel safe and secure, and very often this helps them to melt into their feelings of being loved by their partner. And it makes sense that men find this position satisfying, because Mother Nature wants nothing more than to have a man to ejaculate quickly and deeply into his partner's pussy, so as to increase the chances of her getting pregnant.
The basic man on top position has the woman lying on her back with the man on top of her taking at least some of his weight on his forearms or hands. Usually, his legs are positioned between his partner's, although they can sometimes be placed outside her legs. In this position the man can thrust deeply, and the further back woman takes her legs, the more deeply he can penetrate her.
The truth here, of course, is that deeper penetration may well activate her G spot if she is highly aroused, and cause her to orgasm more easily! The skilful nature of bringing a woman to orgasm are described in Orgasm Arts , a program by Jason Julius. You see, the thing is that her clitoris is not stimulated by the man's penis or body and unless either he or she takes the trouble to ensure that it receives manual stimulation, she will not reach orgasm.
However, the coital alignment technique can remedy this problem by ensuring that a different coital technique can allow the man's body to stimulate the woman's clitoris by pressure during intercourse. With suitable rhythmic movements, she may well reach orgasm - even during intercourse. The coital alignment technique is difficult to master but full instructions are provided on the link above.
You can see what we mean by this in series of photographs below. The further back her legs, the more she presents herself to her partner's viewpoint - arousing? I should say so! Sex and relationships As you know, sexual confidence depends on men knowing all the sexual techniques that will allow them to bring a woman to orgasm successfully, give women pleasure during sex and intercourse, and making sex a success.
But one thing which continues to make men question their virility and sexual attractiveness is penis size! Yes, it's the old question of "Am I big enough? We quite understand why why men are bothered about this, because society places such a burden on men to fulfill the sexual desires of women.
And sometimes relationships can be difficult and challenging, and you may need help to understand why the intimacy of your relationship started to feel less intense. Check this out if you want to know how to restore intimacy with your ex girlfriend. And if you simply want advice on how to get your ex back, you can get the information you need here. Man On Top Revisited The more the man supports himself above his partner's body, and the harder he thrusts, the more tension there will be in his body, and the more likely he is to ejaculate quickly.
See below for an illustration of two sex postures which show this. Faster ejaculation on the left, maybe? Compared to a slower approach to climax - probably - in the second picture, but in the third, the deeper penetration achieved with her legs back may speed things up even though he's not supporting his weight as much. Arguably, the deep penetration and muscular tension the guy's feeling from supporting his own weight in the fourth picture will result in the fastest climax of all Combine this with the deep penetration is possible in this position and you have a recipe for a man not lasting very long, but certainly having a powerful orgasm and ejaculating with great force in a very satisfying way… at least to him, if not his partner, though many women say how powerful they find it to watch their partner when he comes like this.
What's more, if the woman keeps her legs together and the man puts his legs outside hers, this naturally has the effect of tightening her vagina around his penis, which will also make him come in no time at all.
Now while a tight vagina might be useful if you happen to be man who suffers from delayed or retarded ejaculation it makes you come quicker , it's not really so great if you're an average man who tends to come within about two minutes of penetration. So what are you going to do about this? It's actually not hard to learn to slow your climax down and learn how to last longer in bed for men, but it does depend on choosing the right sexual technique, and it does depend on some other factors like the tightness of your partner's vagina and the depth of penetration, as we've already mentioned.
To learn more about it, click here. First of all, you need to have as little tension in your muscles as possible, so find out how much weight your partner can take. Second, have her keep her legs wide apart, so that her vagina is somewhat looser, and doesn't grip your penis as tightly. That may mean that you don't get as much sensation, but there again it may mean that you're able to thrust longer before you ejaculate.
For techniques to give you greater ejaculation control see www. Here you can see some ideas for variations of this position where she keep her legs apart: These images don't really show positions where the man is relaxed - where he is putting his weight on his partner. Now, of course you may want the pleasure of tightness: Third, cultivate a relaxed approach to lovemaking.
If you want to prolong the time before you reach your orgasm, don't thrust hard and vigorously, but take a more relaxed approach to moving in and out of your partner's vagina: It's hard to describe what we mean by this, but practice makes perfect, and when you hit on it you'll know just what we mean. It's a more relaxed movement back and forth from the hips, rather than deep thrusting from the pelvis.
In the first picture, the man has more opportunity for a relaxed movement than in the second one, where it looks as though his only way of enjoying the rhythm of sex is to thrust from his pelvis.
And - make no mistake - that will be highly enjoyable, but again, it may make him come too quickly. This approach may be a method of making love which satisfies you You can also learn some simple breathing techniques and some simple PC muscle control techniques that will allow you to last longer.
One good way, however is to reach the verge of ejaculation, and then to pull right out of your partner. If you wait until your arousal has dropped — really dropped, that is — and then carry on making love, you often find that you can continue for much longer as the urge to ejaculate is weakened when you get right to the edge of coming and then don't actually do so.
The photographs below show a series of positions in which the woman moves her legs up and over over the man's back while he maintains more or less the same position. Remember that the further back her legs go, the deeper the penetration, and therefore potentially at least, the quicker you'll come. There are many ways of enjoying lovemaking, of course: It's also useful to remember that these techniques become more and more arousing as the woman opens up her vulva to your view, and that's an additional source of arousal that will also probably help make you come quite quickly.
What Size Is It? Now, we ought to mention the question of penis size here, before we go any further. It's a sad fact that not all men are created equal. And, as you very well know, most men consider themselves to be below average size when erect. Unfortunately there's a lot of truth in that, because by definition half of all men actually are below average size.
And that's one of the reasons why we can't take this question too seriously: But here's the thing: For men, the question of penis size and sexual satisfaction is never about how women see this issue — it's about how men see it. And unfortunately, men do tend to equate penis size with personal power or masculinity, and it's that equation which can make a man think he's not a good lover. You need to change your approach. If this applies to you, then you need to be adapting your sexual technique and using different sex positions according to how long your erect cock is.
There's not a lot you can do if you have a very thick penis , except ask your partner to keep her legs wide apart, although she might actually like the sense of fullness. If women do have a preference around penis size, it seems to be for thickness rather than length, although if a woman's PC muscles are fit and active, she will most likely be able to feel any man inside her no matter how thin or thick his erection is.
The problem is that having a long penis isn't actually as much of a good thing as many men imagine it to be. It's actually pretty damn' painful for a woman if the man's thrusting hard and hits her cervix — or at least, it can be if she's not extremely aroused.
Men who have a long penis need to find a sex position in which they actually can't thrust to their full extent: As you'll have guessed, in man on top sex where the woman has her legs back and up, and the man lies on top of her, there may be very deep penetration, so these may not be suitable for a well-endowed guy. On the other hand, if you're a man with a small endowment, then the sexual positions that give you the opportunity for the deepest penetration can be the most fulfilling for both you and your partner, in which case you might benefit by asking your partner to move her legs back.
Other sexual techniques which are variations of the man on top, but which don't allow the man to achieve very deep penetration, are the ones where the man is kneeling - see these in the pictures below. Unless you're very flexible indeed, the positions shown below can be both satisfying and prevent too-deep penetration.
Does It Depend On Position? Unless you're a man with any kind of delayed ejaculation aka retarded ejaculation problem, you'll certainly expect to reach orgasm and ejaculate during sexual intercourse each time you have sex, and certainly regardless of the sexual method position that you're enjoying.
But guys, we have some bad news! It just ain't the same for women. Although there are a lot of people around who would have you believe otherwise, there are very few women who can reach orgasm during intercourse due to the thrusting of their partner alone. In fact, we put this number at around one woman in