Sex toys can bring an added element of fun, playfulness, and exploration to your bedroom repertoire. And ever since I started writing about sex more over the past year, this has been one of the most highly requested articles from all of my readers. From vibrators, to masturbators, to light bondage gear, I believe that this list has something for everyone. Alright, enough with the pre-amble… on to the good stuff! I know… the name is kind of weird.
I repeat… I test drove aka masturbated with the five most well known brands of male masturbators and this one lapped the competition in terms of overall sexual pleasure and sensation. The product is sleek, easy to use, easy to clean, and the technology feels amazing. It worked so well that, by the time I started to climax, my feet and hands were starting to tingle.
There are worse things one could do for work… Whether you use this toy solo while your partner is out of town, or you add it to your regular partnered sexual play, this product is an absolute winner. After fifty uses it supposedly maybe? Check out my product review on the Tenga Flip Hole here. Or you can also check out my video review below.
Pocket vibrator A vibrator? No, my friend… not at all. If your partner has a penis, roll the pocket vibrator up and down the underside of his shaft while you perform oral sex. Does your partner have an anus hint: Experiment with adding some low level vibrations on and around their anus while their genitals are being stimulated.
Some people really like the combination of stimuli. Again, this can be used for female clitoral stimulation, or it can be used for stimulating your testicles, anus, or any other body part your sexy self desires. I wrote a deep dive article all about the wonders of the Magic Wand. You can check it out by clicking here. When should you use each one? Water based lubricant is great for: Coconut oil is great for: My all-time favourite brand of water based lubricant is JO Water Based Lubricant which you can find here , and my all-time favourite brand of coconut oil for use in cooking and for sex is Nutiva Organic Coconut Oil.
Vibrating cock rings These work really well for some, and not so well for others generally depending on you and your partners individual levels of sensitivity. A vibrating cock ring is essentially a rubbery piece of stretchy plastic that stretches around your penis with a vibrator attached to the side of it.
Your penis vibrates while inside of your partner and can rub up against their clitoris if positioned properly. Again, this one, probably more than any other on this list, is fully up to personal preference. So try it out!
So if you discover that you enjoy them, maybe buy of them to have on hand, but use them as more of a special occasion toy as opposed to an every-time toy. Adjustable wrist straps are the simplest, easiest to use, and most versatile toy that you can bring into your sexual den.
Amazon has some high quality options. Wrapping Up Like I mentioned in the article, not everything in the list will necessarily appeal to you.