Are you sick and tired of his suspicious behavior? Are you tired of losing endless hours of sleep due to the sadness and uncertainty as to what is going on in your relationship?
Do you feel a deep sadness inside when you think about how someone you love so dearly, and have put all your trust into, could have possibly done this to you? That means that for every 4 women that suspect that their husband or boyfriend is cheating, 3 of them actually are!
So don't feel bad about having those thoughts The problem is that finding out why your spouse or boyfriend is actually cheating. You have to take a step back.
You have to understand how men are wired. It usually comes down to the one thing they are "secretly obsessed" with Once you understand this little fact about male behavior and instinct And more importantly, act on it appropriately These men will have no desire to cheat on you ever again. All their core human needs will be addressed in your relationship alone.
In fact, this one "secret obsession" that men have can hold the key to winning a man's love, attention, and total devotion for life. Click the video below to find out why your man may be cheating on you and how you can address this one "secret obsession" to win over his heart for the rest of your life. Once you're able to trigger this "secret obsession" in your man, you'll feel a burning desire for you from him, that you likely never have felt before. You become the absolute top of his priorities.
Imagine how great it would feel to have his entire attention devoted to you, and finally have him propose to you in the most romantic way possible. Imaging lifting off that extra weight from your shoulders when you can finally get rid of all those doubts you were having whether he was ever going to propose to you. Unfortunately, the longer you wait in your relationship, and the longer you're in a relationship where your man's secret obsession isn't satisfied, the harder it becomes to resolve.
Once you understand this, you start to realize the fact that your man hasn't proposed yet is merely a symptom So make sure you click here now to watch the video now! I have sat down with my close friend and looked at some of the earlier signs in which led her to believe he was cheating.
I have also gathered signs that experts and psychologists have determined are signs your man is cheating. I have listed 29 signs which might mean your man is cheating on you but I have also explained how to tell whether he is cheating or whether he is just going through a rough patch. You've seen it in the movies or on the TV where the wife or girlfriend is sorting the laundry and notices lipstick marks on her husbands or boyfriend clothing.
You will be highly surprised as to how often this happens in the real world. Longer Working Days If all of a sudden your guy is working longer days and doing a lot of overtime then it may be worth investigating as he very well could be spending those hours with another woman. One of my friends is a teacher at a school and was cheating on her long-time partner with another woman who was a teaching assistant at her school.
The affair got that serious that my friend actually thought she was in love with this woman and had even booked tickets to take her on a trip to Paris. She used to tell her partner that she was working all kinds of crazy hours at the school and still to this day she is none the wiser. Saying all this though, your man may actually be working overtime but you can check this out by taking a peak at his latest wage slip.
This should clearly state whether he has been doing overtime as much as he says. This means that even when he is sitting next to you at home or having dinner, he is in his own little world and hardly noticing you are there. If however there is nothing distracting your man such as the game and he is still not present with you, then it may be cause for concern and could mean a little investigation is needed to hopefully settle your mind that he is not cheating or if he is.
For example, if he usually goes to work in an old suit and bed hair but then all of a sudden starts going to work in top quality suits, his hair neatly gelled back and expensive cuff links then it is time to start wondering. There could very well be an honest reason for your man dressing better for work though such as if he has received a promotion or if a promotion is coming up and he wants to be picked.
If there is nothing happening with his work though and he starts dressing better than it is certainly behavior that is worth investigating. It doesn't just have to be for work neither, if he usually goes to the home improvement store or grocery shop dressed in sweats but then suddenly starts wearing aftershave and wearing his best jeans and shirt when going to the home improvement store then it is also worth investigating.
Take everything into consideration and investigate before making accusations though as again, false accusations can cause damage to your relationship. Enthusiastic About A New Colleague I will go back to my friend who was having an affair with one of her colleagues for this one. I remember me and my husband going to a wedding where my friend and her partner were also in attendance. I wonder whether her partner ever had a feeling that she was having an affair.
If you start noticing how much your man is taking about someone he works with in an excitable way then it could possibly mean that he is having an affair with that person.
However if he is always talking about someone at work very negatively then it may be just that he is having problems at work with that person. If you have concerns either way by how much this colleague is on your boyfriends or husbands mind then do a little digging to find out and hopefully just put your mind at ease. This could be that he didn't notice your new haircut or that you have lost weight.
If your man has always been one not to notice these things then it doesn't mean he is having an affair. For example, I was watching one of the old Home Improvements episodes the other day where Jill had gotten an entirely new haircut and Tim, her husband, didn't even notice but he wasn't having an affair. On the flip side, my husband for example notices every new hairstyle I get and always comments so if he stopped noticing then it would be a concern for me. If your boyfriend or husband is like my husband and always notices your hair, your clothes or your appearance and suddenly stops noticing these things then before jumping to conclusions, start investigating whether he may be cheating.
Hints From Family And Friends When my friend was cheating on her partner, I had only ever met her partner once and so there was never a chance for hints of cheating. If you can easily become the green eye monster and have ruined relationships in the past because of false accusations and constant jealousy then you need to start building your self-esteem and trust levels. If however you aren't the type to become easily jealous then sometimes it is best to listen to what your intuition is telling you.
However before you come right out and accuse your fella of cheating, make sure to investigate first by doing a little digging. If you find something that is suspicious such as a cleared call and text history, no overtime hours on his pay when he said he done overtime, or his story keeps changing about a night out then you can ask your man whether he is cheating. If you are sure that your man is cheating and have asked about it and responds by accusing you of being crazy or jealous then it doesn't mean that you are as technically he hasn't answered your question.
If your man really hasn't cheated on your then he should be hurt that you would think that and not defensive and accuse you being jealous. There are a lot women out there who feel put down after their boyfriends or husbands have accused them of being crazy or overly jealous when really it should be their cheating men who should be feeling ashamed of themselves.
This is why even if your guy says that he will show you his phone to prove he hasn't been cheating, it actually really doesn't prove anything.
If your man offers to show you his phone but refuses to show you his phone bill then that should certainly be setting off alarm bells.
Being Overly Nice If you notice that your man is being overly nice to your recently the he very well could be cheating. He could randomly start buying you flowers, chocolates, jewelry or taking you out more. While you may be enjoying all these gifts, if it isn't something he usually does then it might raise alarm bells. He will either buy you gifts and be overly nice because he is feeling elated or he is buying you gifts to almost make up for how is treating you. Constantly Picking Faults While I have mentioned about men who cheat being suddenly overnice, it could actually be the polar opposite in other men.
Some men very well start becoming overly picky by constantly picking out your faults no matter how small or big. It could be something as silly as you putting a fork in the drawer the wrong way or you eating crisps too loudly, or it could be something bigger.
A man who feels guilty about cheating will undoubtedly feel the constant burden of his deceit and will therefore become very irritable. This will result in him becoming a lot more picky about what you do which you will notice no doubt. If you begin to notice your man being overly picky then tell him so, if he gets annoyed or defensive then it be worth investigating whether he is having an affair.
If however he is apologetic then it could mean that there is another burden that is worrying him such as work or money. He Has Unpredictable Mood Swings One the biggest signs that a man is cheating on you is that he has unpredictable mood swings such as from going from happy to all of a sudden explosively angry or from acting normal to suddenly being overly nice.
If you notice that the smallest of things set him off or that he is acting very differently lately then unfortunately it could mean bad news. It was actually my friend who told me of this sign as she said looking back, after finding out her boyfriend was cheating, she remembered that he would sometimes start the most strangest of fights with her and would storm out of the hours and not come back for hours. She now thinks that he caused those fights on purpose so he could get away when he ran out of all other excuses.
Before accusing him of cheating, use this sign to investigate before accusing. Your man would have undoubtedly done the same.
When you see your man making an effort to go the gym more and start to make more of an effort in his appearance; maybe a new haircut, style of facial hair or even the aftershave he wears then it may be cause for concern.
When me and my husband first started dating or at the early stages of our relationship, his physique was very much chiselled and he was very much into his designer clothing. As time has gone on, he still goes to the gym and is in good shape however not so chiselled as before.
He will also hang out in his sweats and sometimes goes days before shaving. Saying all this however, it may be that your man just needs boost in his self-confidence so before jumping to conclusions, make sure to dig a bit deeper before confronting him. This means he is interested in that woman and wants to have something in common with her or admires her tastes so much so that he wants to have the same tastes so as to impress her. My husband usually tries something new after I have tried and recommended it.
For example, I decided to start getting into smoothies and kept telling him how good they are for you. After trying one, he now makes me have them. The point, when a man loves or is interested in a woman he will be interested in what she is interested in. His Story Changes One of the biggest tell-tale signs that your man is cheating is if his story about a recent weekend away, night out with the lads or trip to the shops has changed.
For example, your man may have come back from a weekend away and said he stayed in a triple room with friends but later slips up about the double bed being uncomfortable when he told you earlier it was three single beds.
This is a sure sign of shadiness and should certainly start set your alarm bells ringing. This is one of the signs that my friend experienced and was one of the signs that made her realise something shady was going on.
She told me that her ex went on a conference weekend with work and weeks after he got back he said something about being at a restaurant with one of his female colleagues but he had told my friend that it was only him and two other male colleagues going to the conference.
For example, if you notice that your man is spending much more time in another room than usual then it could be possible that he is chatting online or texting with his mistress. This is only a significant sign if you and your man usually spend all or most of your time in the same room. If you usually spend time in different rooms or he works in his home office then it is hard to notice this change. There Is Change In His Sexual Appetite This doesn't mean whether there is more or less sex, this means if his sexual tastes have changed out of the blue.
For example, he has always liked it when you are on top but then suddenly decides he doesn't like this anymore, or during one session he starts talking crudely to you which he has never done before. Whatever the sudden change is, it may be worth asking after why.