Men can be feminine, women can be masculine—we are also a mixture of both. For a woman, erogenous zones are not just found in the G-spot or other areas of the body. The heart, spirit, mind, body and soul are all places capable of receiving and responding to sexual pleasure.
That sexual pleasure though, for a woman begins with the way a man looks at her, communicates with her, touches her, thinks of her and more. A woman is capable of an orgasm without being touched or receiving any physical penetration at all. When a man explores and discovers the sensual side to a woman, he advances on a whole new world of self-discovery for himself and a tantalizing journey for the female, simply by perceiving her as a glorious and divine Goddess—who wants to be seen well before she is touched.
Often men feel that they need to fill a truckload full of seduction techniques and tools in order to trick or play mind games to seduce a woman. By then the trust will have been broken when the man is called out and quite likely the guy will be back to square one—figuring out how to really seduce a woman. Females are emotional creatures and although, generally speaking they enjoy looking good themselves, they are far more interested in mental and emotional attractions than they are in the physical and visual ones of their partner.
Non-sexual words and actions are a form of foreplay for a woman. Tantalise and tease her imagination, ignite her mind, stimulate her thoughts before even thinking about or attempting to seduce her body. Loosen inhibitions so that fantasies can run wild and free. Take her mind to places it has never ventured before. Heighten her adrenaline levels by showing the fearless, free spirited and hidden sides that men are sometimes afraid to expose.
Stay in the present moment at all times; a woman wants a man who is genuine and authentic and is fully connected and engaged in the here and now.
If your mind is in the past or the future, a woman will pick up on this and feel as though your affections are insincere. A woman wants your attention when you interact, she wants to feel your presence and if the mind begins to wander gently bring it back to the here and now.
If a man is not fully conscious with his interaction, the pleasure for him will weaken as he will miss vital response signals from the female, so the resonation will not be felt as deeply and the intensity both could feel will not be as strong.
Pay attention, listen to her, notice how her body moves, the tone of her voice and how her skin feels when you touch it. Above all worship her without putting her on a pedestal, see her for who she is, a beautiful imperfectly perfect and entirely unique creation. Treat a female as though she is a musical instrument that you are passionate about learning to master. The male is a guitar—the female a piano. Notice how your energy and vibrations affect and interact with the females.
Sense how you feel within and allow the energies of those sensations to outwardly reflect and gravitate towards the female. She will pick up on the energy and likely respond accordingly.
Tune into one another and harmonize the mind, body and soul. A female is a form of art and she possesses the shades of all colours. Accept she is a sinner, and also a saint. Do not stereotype or treat her as an ornament to be viewed from the outside. She has far more magnificent qualities hidden beneath the skin that will reveal when honesty and trust have built foundations. Women too do not want to be objectified or treated purely as sexual beings, sensuality is the key to unlocking the mind and the heart.
When these things have been opened, that is when the door that leads to embracing her sexual side will stand a chance of being revealed. He will notice the responses in his own body and mind of the effects his energy levels and interactions are having on the female. Surrendering to the sensuality and divine femininity of a woman and embracing all that she is a way to open to the sensations that these reactions will offer.
Returned will be a deep sense of pleasure, satisfaction, a sensual arousal and a nourishing and bonding experience and connection that reignites and keeps alive the ying-and-yang energy between the masculine and feminine. It is the most seductive way to penetrate a woman fully so that she is deeply satisfied without any physical interaction having taken place.
A woman will be more passionate, more confident, more sensual and also healthier physically, sexually and emotionally when a man floods her mind with feel-good hormones and love-induced chemicals before he even begins to attempt or think about touching the body. The most important thing to remember is that there is no hurry, no perfection, no set rules and above all like with all pieces of art and all practices, it is not perfection that is key—it is progression.