Dec 27, 1 Advertisement I brought up my son and daughter to have sex with each other. I'm a realist and I knew that someday they would become interested in sex. I didn't want the drama of them wanting it and hiding it from me if they found someone to do it with.
I'm not like other moms who think that their little "angels" can do no wrong. Many parents refuse to see the truth that's right in front of them; on tv, in newspapers, magazines etc. I bathed my kids together when they were little. I also had them sleep in the same twin bed, in the nude. I taught my daughter to soap up her brother during bathtime and vice versa, teaching both to pay special attention to each others genitals.
When my son turned 6, I left him and his sister, 8, to bathe alone, but I checked on them every few minutes. As I hoped, they were 'playing' with each other. Sometime later, I guess when they were about 7 and 9, I found them in their bedroom,naked, their arms around each other, kissing. I knew the time had come when they wanted to have sex. I had had many talks with them about sex, love etc. I had them get in bed, my daughter on top, provided the lube and showed them what to do.
They have been having sex almost every night for about 4 years now. They didn't grow up with the idea that their bodies are 'dirty' or 'bad' or that being naked is 'wrong'. Almost everyday my kids come directly home from school. They will often sit in front of the tv and make out with each other.
That's fine with me. Other kids spend a lot of time and mental energy thinking about sex and fantasizing about it. My kids spend that time doing schoolwork and learning. I don't have to worry about my kids going around flirting, etc and trying to find a sex partner.
While other kids are out there, yes, parents, your kids getting into a possibly dangerous situation, my kids are at home, having sex where it's safe. I've taught them about std's and how they are spread. My kids and I speak openly about sex and anything else too. Both have told me that they love having sex with each other and are not interested in having sex with anyone else. They are both Honor Roll students and do well in all other aspects of their lives.
Not all kids who are sexually active end up as disrespectful, drugged out little sluts on the Maury Povich Show.