They simply do not know how to do it. In this article I will show you the best way to turn a girl on sexually with both verbal and non-verbal techniques. The girl does not see you as a sexual partner. She is not turned on, she does not want to have sexual activities with you. Her body and mind are not turned on. She is talking to you, but she does not feel anything.
She does not feel your masculinity, she does not dream about your dick. The beauty of the female mind is that you can turn it on whenever you want.
I have spent years in cracking and understanding how the female mind works and I have found many flaws, tricks and back doors. I have found a really easy way how to get them horny and how to turn them on. We all know that in order to seduce a woman, you have to seduce her mind and body separately. She likes you, but as a friend. The only way you can truly seduce a woman effectively, get her turned on and have sex is if you turn on her mind and body together at the same time.
Good news for you guys is that I have solutions for both of them and I will share it with you in this amazing article. I will show you how to turn a girl on and how to implement it into your Game. Can you imagine doing that with a girl you just met on the bus station or a girl from your class?
Freaking out will happen. By doing so you can look like a retard or a creep. The first thing you have to do is to start touching her non-sexual zones. She has to get used to just being touched by you.
As you are talking to her touch her every now and then. You touch her non-sexual places. This takes minutes. This is a crucial step before it gets more sexual and we move on to the core of how to turn a girl on.
Arms, shoulders, hands, upper back, face. These are the areas of the body that are commonly touched in a regular daily conversation.
We all do it when we talk with our friends, girlfriends, parents, coworkers. Give her time to get comfortable with your touch before it becomes more sexual later on. One thing I have to warn you about is that you never look at the place you are touching. There is some creepy feeling she gets when you look at the place where you touch. For example, you want to touch her shoulder, then you look at the shoulder break eye contact and touch it.
This is something that I have seen lots of guys do and scare the girls. Do not do this. Instead keep eye contact while touching and keep talking to hide it. To make it look normal and natural do this: And then apply physical touch. This is a trick I use all the time and it works.
You have to do this only the first few times to get it going. The more you progress and the more she is turned on, the less you will have to hide it.
Yellow zones are slightly more sexual. Neck, ears, hair, lower back, hips are yellow zones. Yellow zones are where Game is actually played. I usually spend some good time there while talking to a girl in a bar, club or some social event.
My hand just slides from upper back to lower back and I move it around the body. But what happens in her body, is that she is starting to feel more and more sexual. Her body is getting turned on more and more. And that is the beauty of design of the female mind and body. Anyone can turn her on. Instead a guy turned her on and had sex with her.
Girls can do this. This is why good techniques and Game is important. You can literally be able to seduce and turn on any girl out there. Spend a good portion of time on yellow zones.
Yellow zones are a bridge from non-sexual to sexual. Do not hurry, play with her hips, smell her neck, whisper to her ear, blow warm air around her ear as you talk to her. Every touch she feels more intensely, more powerfully. As the neck is one of the sexual arousal zones, hips as well, someone touching it will get her sexual and turned on.
This is the key of seduction. The key of turning a girl on. Everything has to happen smoothly… Game is played in yellow zones This is one more reason why learning how to dance is a really smart thing to do.
Girls love to dance and for you as a player it gives you an easy way to escalate and turn her on while touching her dancing with her. I believe that every player should learn salsa and know how to dance. It takes you months to learn it and stays with you forever. Results come in red zones Which are the red zone areas? She will let you touch these body parts only if you did a really good job in the yellow zones.
Kissing is a turning point in seduction. Kissing is actually a bridge between the yellow and red zones. As simple as that. So kissing is your way to the red zones.
Kissing is one of the key elements of turning a girl on. So, once you are kissing her, you can move your hand to her ass and explore other areas of the red zone. Girls do not like to look slutty and sexual in front of their friends or in public. In order not to ring her alarm bells again, slow down and take care of logistics. There is so much you can escalate to in public. This usually happens in first stages, the first few minutes in green or yellow zones.
I am sure it already happened to you. What works best in this situation: Both are actually equally important for success. The idea is to let her mind flow together with her body. If her body is getting sexual, her mind should follow. If the mind does not follow, she will stop what is happening to her body. As a dating coach, I have seen many seduction attempts fall apart because of this. While you are talking with a woman, make sure your conversation is quality and you go wide and deep.
If you still struggle with conversation, read my article on how to talk to women. On top of that foundation, every few minutes you should whisper something sexual to her ear. Mixing normal conversation with a sexual one. What this does is sending an impulse to her brain: Change the topic and let her unconscious cook.
This is Mind Fucking You are playing with her left and right brain hemisphere both logic and emotions are engaged. I have tried this on hundreds of women around the planet and it worked every single time I did it. Dirty talk is simply an amazing technique. This is such an effective way to turn a girl on! Always whisper sexual things to her left ear! With years of testing this, I found that there is a difference between whispering to the left or to the right ear.
And I found that whispering to the left ear produces more intense and sexual emotions in her mind. It intrigued me, so I did a research and found out that the left ear is controlled by the right hemisphere of the brain. And we know that the right hemisphere of the brain deals with emotions, so it all made perfect sense. Everything you whisper to her left ear goes directly to her emotional part of the brain, bypassing the critical mind logic in some way.