If this is your first visit to this site I recommend reading my Aquarius and Virgo compatibility article on this relationship first. I also have a Aquarius man guide and Virgo woman guide which contain a lot of questions and answers related to this relationship.
If you would like to post your own experience or question please use the form at the bottom of this page. I met an Aquarian man about a month ago. He Is 42 and I am 48 and aVirgo woman. He Is In a relationship with his girlfriend not married and theylive together. He has been after me since day one and makes me feel I am hisentire world. We have been Intimate and he has been the only man that has evermade me feel completely satisfied as a woman. He Is a professional and so am I.
I don't mind his other life and feel no jealousy as of yet. I believe he Is theone for me, He walked Into my life unexpectedly and I believe he was heavensent. How should I handle this situation? How do I protect myself from heartbreak In the future? Is he for real or am I just an affair? I know hisgirlfriend Is not at his Intellectual level, I don't know how old she Is. I look40 years old and he and I look the same age I have never had a relationshipwith a man younger than me and It scares me.
It totally depends on Virgo's patience and understanding, try to bemore optimistic. Actually, there Is no way to change an Aquarius man. He reallycomes to you when he wants. If you are too sensitive, you might have troubles.
But If you are strong enough to overcome such a time, calm down, and use yourmental advance to motivate yourself, then the sky Is bright again. Sometimes, you feel you are neglected and want to run away, but another time, he suddenly contacts you, especially when he gets stuck In life, then you know your ownvalue.
He appreciates that, don't think you are abused. He Is actually shy,scared of being lonely and need security Inside, that's why he rarely showsemotions, and has a lot of friends around. Be his best friend, make yourself asextraordinary and special as possible, you win his heart forever! I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I would like to know If I could save It and make It work. This story Is about my boyfriend who Is an Aquarius and myself a Virgo.
Sorry my English Isn't good. When we met first time, everything was fine. We were so perfect for each other. Unfortunately from the beginning I knew, that If there was not a difference In our religion, everything would be fine, I just could not let religion to break us apart. It was not a good enough reason to split. This man became everything to me.
After 6 months he asked me to marry him. In the summer I took him back home to meet my parents and see my country. But then he asked me If I will be happy to bring up our children under the Islamic religion. I took some time to think about this. It was a big decision to be made. I asked him to compromise. That we will bring your children In both religions, so when they will grow up they will choose. He also said No, when I asked him to move with me.
It was again against his beliefs, but I understand this one. He was protecting me. I started to talk to him again. I was not happy about this anymore.
He was allowed to marry me, because I was girl from a religion which follows the bible and I promised to raise our kids In Islam. I asked him If those 2 things were not meet If he would still be with me. He said probably not. And that he loves me beyond everything, that he would give his life for mine.
I was doing everything to save our relationship, but I started to think In double way. When I listened to my heart It said Yes, but my brain said "run girl run" I turned for help to my family and friends and they all said NO, It won't work.
When he and I talk about this he said to me do not worry, follow your heart, do not think. Just follow me blindly, trust me and everything will be fine. I started loosing my weight; got grey hair I become different person. In the morning I wanted to marry him and In a couple hours I changed my mind. I changed my mind too many times and In the end I called off our wedding just 24 hours before. Now I feel really guilty for shame which I have put on his shoulders and his family.
I can't believe, that In the and I let religion break our happiness, our true love. I want to help him to understand why I have done what I have done. From my side I just felt that I am giving up everything and he nothing. I always thought that love Is supposed to be give and take. I miss him so much and I am worried that I will never find such a loving man any more.
I know that he will go back to Pakistan and he will marry who ever his family will choose for him. I still don't know If I did the right thing.. This Is a Virgo woman Aquarius man question. Thank you In my opinion, love Is about give and take! Its about compromise andthe only way to a successful relationship and especially marriage Is being ableto compromise!
I'm with an Aquarius man and I can say for certain they can be very selfish,their way or no way, however you should always stand firm In your beliefs soyou are not bullied because If given the chance they will do so! I've learnt that they will try any tactic Intellectually; In order to get youto agree always with them, Aquarius are very Intelligent.
Im a Virgo women and Im talking to an Aquarius man. I'm 22 and he's23, we have been talking for about 2 months and It's really hard tofigure him out. He has a son but he's not with his son's mother. He tells me thathe wants to make me his girl one day but I feel like he will get back with hisson's mother. I don't know If It will work out because he really doesn't express hisfeelings much. I feel like he's only talking to me because he's not withthe other girl, but he tells me that he does like me.
He just got out of arelationship so I don't know maybe It's me wanting too much too soon, but I needsome help what should I do? Aquarius men are truly the most wonderful men. In a seriousrelationship, they do like to take things slow and not be rushed or pushed. Ifyou can understand this, and be patient and strong, you will win his heart. He likes a woman who Is patient, understanding and has a truly good heart. Theyare sometimes a little hard to date because they need a lot of time forthemselves, but this Is so they can reflect on things.
Its just how they are. I have been with one for a year and a half. Im a Virgo,he's an Aquarius. Please be patient with him, be understanding, and don't takehis moods personally. Go with the flow of things, because In reality, you cant force anyone Intoanything. Things will come naturally. Be positive and always hope for the best.: I'm a Virgo woman and I was seeing an Aquarius man for quite a fewmonths. He wanted to be serious but I didn't because I had only just got outof a relationship where I was cheated on, so I was trying to get over thatheartache.
At first I was distant and he was after me for a long time. As soonas I started to feel the same for him and started treating him as he treatedme, he had no Interest In me. I didn't speak to him In months, he seemed very stubborn and doesn't like to bethe first to get In contact. Though I did eventually get Into contact. He wasvery cold and distant but Invited me round his place. We ended up beingintimate even though when we were seeing each other we went no further thankissing As I wasn't ready The next day he told me In an email he wasn't Interested In a relationship withme, he doesn't know why but he just Isn't.
He wants to find someone else.