No products in the basket. If you are going to use sex toys as masturbating aids, then place them, and a good quality lubricant, close to hand.
Set the mood by reading an erotic story , or watching a naughty film. Or think of a past sexual experience that really turns you on. Now slide your hand around and over your vagina. To stimulate your clitoris use hands, fingers, knuckles, shower head, running water, vibrator, dildo… or rub up against something like a pillow or cushion gripped between your legs.
The clitoris exists purely for sexual pleasure. This is something totally unique to women. So enjoy yourself girls! The majority of women are unable to orgasm unless their clitoris is stimulated in some way. Getting down to business Using your fingers, rub, stroke, or pinch your clitoris and also smooth and caress the area surrounding it.
The clitoris is a mini penis, though much more sensitive. So play with it, stroke it, caress it, excite it. When you feel the urge start rubbing a little more vigorously, especially from side to side, and give your now eager clitoris a gentle slap with your fingers every now and then.
The shower head can be a wonderful masturbation aid too. A head where you can adjust the stream of water from a steady gentle stream and then to a more powerful jet spray will be the most exciting. Just be careful to not blast strong streams of water up into your vagina for a long period of time because it can cause an air embolism. This is not nice. There are so many to choose from.
Variety is the spice of life, is it not? Hold the vibrator up against your clit to feel the maximum effect. If you find your clitoris gets too sensitive, try moving the vibrator around the general area and between your vaginal lips. If the vibrations are too strong, put some fine material between you and the vibrator to reduce the intensity.
There are many types and styles of dildo available and are great for when you crave basic and simple penetrative pleasure, enhanced by deep thrusting. For really intense and deeply satisfying masturbating, insert and thrust with a dildo while holding a mini vibrator or bullet a water-proof one for the bath or shower to your clitoris with your other hand. A word of warning though… if you are standing up, this WILL make your knees weak and wobbly.
Stimulating your G spot There are many sex toys on the market specifically made to seek-out and stimulate the g-spot. However, if you know how to find your g-spot and can manipulate and stimulate it with your fingers, then by all means do so… although most women will find it easier to use some form of masturbating aid. Stimulating your anus The anus is an extremely sensitive area of your body with literally thousands of very sensitive nerve endings.
Please be careful with your bum. Get it wrong and anal penetration can be associated with injury, pain and misery. Explore the area around your anus. Use LOTS of lubricant. Unlike your vagina, your anus does not produce its own lubricant. If your breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples. Your breasts are a fabulous erogenous zone that should not be ignored during all kinds of sex play, including masturbation.
Experiment to find out what works best for you. Experiment with everything, stay safe, and above all else… enjoy yourself.
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