Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. By David Wygant Warning for women! Men expose our real feelings after sex. It's a beautiful thing to make love to someone. It's beautiful to look them in their eyes deeply, to hear them confess how they feel about you. But if you've ever been with "Mr. I Love You During Sex" here's the truth A man will review his true feelings after he cums, not before, and certainly not during.
Sex talk is sex talk, and you need to distinguish between that and real talk. Sex talk is beautiful. The things we say when we're having sex are epic. You should record it because they are incredible conversations based on sensation, but the problem is a woman will always interpret that sex talk as a man's true feelings.
Let me tell you why you never should. I'm not saying you shouldn't cry, sigh, and feel tears of joy when the man professes his love to you during sex.
When a man is having sex, there's a rush of emotions. When he sees a beautiful woman underneath him, or a beautiful woman on top of him, he gets lost in his sensations.
It doesn't mean that he feels those things when you're NOT having sex. It's like a heightened sense of feeling, but it doesn't mean these feelings are feelings that will last. Have you ever noticed after a man cums he goes quiet?
He's less into kissing. He's less into touching. He's kind of aloof. During sex he becomes what I call a 'sex professor'. He vomits feelings all over you. Most of the time, the minute he's released he realizes what he's said. Then he thinks, "Oh my god, what did a say? I can't believe I said all those things. I don't really feel those things. I can't believe I told her how much I love her, and how I want to have babies with her, and how much I want to be with her! He's your lover when he's about to cum, but when he's not charged up sexually, he doesn't have those same feelings.
I want to make you aware of this type of man, because a lot of women get sucked into it with him, and there are a lot of them around. Pay attention to what a man says over the course of a day when you're not having sex. Our real feelings come out after the sex. I want you to remember that. I'd like you to pass along this blog to every single woman you know out there. Call it 'dating insurance'.
Make sure he has feelings for you after sex -- before you commit your heart.